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Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 07-08-2011, 02:44 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 833
Posted By akcroy
Exclamation My wife just drove off in the middle of the night - what should i do?

Hi, my wife and I had an argument, at the end of which I told her I did not want to live with her anymore and that she should move out. I had meant every word I said. At that time my wife did not...
Forum: Reconciliation 06-25-2011, 12:51 AM
Replies: 305
Views: 33,952
Posted By akcroy
Re: Any 180 success stories????

No success stories from my end. I put up with my wife not having sex with me for four years and her selfish attitude, but was forced to put my foot down when she mistreated my parents. I pointed out...
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 06-24-2011, 09:54 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 615
Posted By akcroy
Rant

I feel like I've been broken into so many pieces, I don't know where to start picking them up... I can't function, I can't walk, eat, talk... I can't keep on pretending that everything is okay... I...
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 06-24-2011, 09:23 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 517
Posted By akcroy
Re: I have made some HUGE mistakes and leaps backwards guys.

What's stbx? Nonetheless I think I know how you feel.. I'm so depressed right now I can't eat, and I'm getting weird aches all over my body. I seriously can't even walk straight and fear I'll fall...
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 06-24-2011, 09:20 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 464
Posted By akcroy
Re: Help me out here, ladies

I'm a guy, but I don't think you need a lady to tell you what to do - anybody will tell you the same thing - that you should leave. Your wife seems to be a cold-blooded cheat. I'd also advise you to...
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 06-24-2011, 09:17 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 482
Posted By akcroy
Re: Need advice asap

Very sorry to hear about your situation. Yes, leave - but go for a trial separation first (i.e. live separately). If things don't change then go for a divorce.

I know it's scary - I'm almost 30...
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 06-24-2011, 06:05 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 939
Posted By akcroy
Re: I am completely lost and don't know what to do

Perfectly describes my life with my wife..
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 06-24-2011, 05:51 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,163
Posted By akcroy
Re: I want to leave him but..

Don't beat yourself over his faults - think of the kids, get a divorce. For their sake.

LOL, look who's talking.. you should read my last thread. I know how hard it is to make these decisions...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 04-21-2011, 12:08 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 515
Posted By akcroy
Re: How to cope

So in other words you've lived the last 5yrs in emotional insecurity - always afraid she would cheat on you. Apparently it doesn't seem like she has. Hence, there's a good chance she wont in future,...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 04-20-2011, 03:47 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,266
Posted By akcroy
Re: How miserable are you really?

This is an excellent thread! Thank you.
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 04-20-2011, 08:34 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 825
Posted By akcroy
Re: Spending Most Time On Computers

Can't really agree, the women in my family are smart enough to figure when I'm actually working on my computer and when I'm not (e.g. playing video games, casual surfing etc..).
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 04-20-2011, 08:27 AM
Replies: 32
Views: 1,338
Posted By akcroy
Re: Husband and his Mom - bad combo

No you're not - and you should sit down and have a serious chat with your husband over said issues.

He might be intentionally avoiding his mother because he knows what she's like - have you...
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 04-18-2011, 05:48 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 694
Posted By akcroy
Re: Breaking up and breaking into pieces

Please ignore - things working out. And hopefully will, in the long run.

Thanks to everybody who ever responded to my posts - I'm infinitely grateful to this forum. Had I discovered it four years...
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 04-17-2011, 04:11 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,075
Posted By akcroy
Re: Sexless marriage should I stay?

Seems like your husband is abstaining because he doesn't want kids. He doesn't want a vasectomy either, so he's just trying to stay under the radar for as long as he can.

Anyway, your above quote...
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 04-17-2011, 04:06 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,221
Posted By akcroy
Re: Male late 30s 2 kids (baby and 4yrs) torn and confused...

@DuncanA, I'll go completely off track here - why don't all of you go for a holiday somewhere? Try to have fun together. Sometimes when all is lost, a break can do wonders. Divorce and divorce-ish...
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 04-17-2011, 03:50 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 376
Posted By akcroy
Re: Where do I go from here????

Do you still own the business? In any case building walls around yourself isn't working for you clearly; if you feel the need for counseling then by all means go for it.

That would be step 1....
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 04-17-2011, 12:31 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 694
Posted By akcroy
Breaking up and breaking into pieces

Hi, if you remember me from woeful threads such as this (http://talkaboutmarriage.com/considering-divorce-separation/19880-4-years-marriage-no-sex-different-values-should-i-break-up.html), this ...
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 04-17-2011, 11:37 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 902
Posted By akcroy
Re: I dont want this anymore. Please help ='(

Get a divorce. You're doing him a favor in the long run. And God will be happy if both of you turn out happier in the long run too.
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 04-14-2011, 10:22 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 790
Posted By akcroy
Re: Am I wrong to feel exasperated?

Whose house do you mean? As for the situation, I think my life has been going through loops for quite some time now.
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 04-14-2011, 01:05 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,984
Posted By akcroy
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 04-14-2011, 12:35 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 567
Posted By akcroy
Re: Trying to fight divorce

I'm guessing what you had lied about was more serious than his cheating on you - but there's hardly anything more serious than cheating.

I get the feeling that you're both young and haven't put...
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 04-14-2011, 12:32 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 367
Posted By akcroy
Re: Advice needed.

I have a friend like that, and I agree, that kind of happy-go-lucky attitude isn't great for finding jobs. Anyway, my friend did end up getting a good job, although after a year!

Have you...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 04-14-2011, 12:25 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 790
Posted By akcroy
Re: Am I wrong to feel exasperated?

How interesting that I should find this post - I had completely forgotten about it. Anyway, here's my current situation.

I'm at my lowest point of self-esteem. My wife is yet to have sex with me...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 04-14-2011, 12:14 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 657
Posted By akcroy
Re: Wife's habit gets me upset

@Ser Pounce-A-Lot: agreed. I wouldn't suggest her to seek counseling to quell her germaphobia though; that's the least of our problems right now.

@SadieBrown: yes, this is one of her nuances- I've...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 04-11-2011, 02:05 PM
Replies: 0
Views: 529
Posted By akcroy
Red face Seeking middle ground on family communication

Hi, my wife and I come from very different Indian families - on our side, we're regularly in touch with uncles and aunts from both my parents sides. Not a day goes by without interacting with an...
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