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Forum: Coping with Infidelity Yesterday, 05:34 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 708
Posted By waiwera
Re: Should I Contact His Wife?

Yes tell her...but be kind.

She may know nothing about you or any affair...you can't believe anything her WH says... cheaters lie.
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge Yesterday, 05:23 PM
Replies: 46
Views: 1,138
Posted By waiwera
Re: How many times have you ever seen your husband/SO cry?

In 26 years I've seen my man cry about 5-6 times.
Just wet eyes.

Although he's a real softie so I suspect he has shed tears on other occasions I've not been privy too.

I have no problem with...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 06-03-2013, 07:55 PM
Replies: 62
Views: 2,455
Posted By waiwera
Re: "That time of the month"...

My period only last 2-3 days and isn't usually a cause of much discomfort or the likes ( I just get crabby beforehand) so if during that time the 'situation' arises there is a choice of the red...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 06-03-2013, 07:28 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 530
Posted By waiwera
Re: Question for the women, from a woman..

The way I see it is you asked your H to do something. He did it in his own way, which is not the way you would do it and so your annoyed with him.

Seems a tad picky to me.

I'm not a song...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 05-28-2013, 10:23 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 844
Posted By waiwera
Re: Wife won't initiate sex

I've heard it said that

'conversation is to women.... what sex is to men'


This may not be the case for all women but I know my sex drive is high partly because of how hubby makes me feel...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 05-28-2013, 06:09 PM
Replies: 47
Views: 1,779
Posted By waiwera
Re: Women, are you still "in" love with your husband?

Yes.. I love him with all my heart, soul and body :smthumbup:

He's my husband/lover, best friend, kayaking/hiking/workout/bee keeping/gardening buddy, my childrens father....

We've been...
Forum: Reconciliation 05-27-2013, 03:00 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 553
Posted By waiwera
Re: How to get husband to rely on me-not EA

committed - I feel you are 'Coping with Infidelity'.
The CWI board is sadly also one of the busiest places on TAM.

I can see in the words you write 'kind and gentle' is who you are. You don't...
Forum: Reconciliation 05-26-2013, 03:44 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 553
Posted By waiwera
Re: How to get husband to rely on me-not EA

committed - justpuzzled is so right.

You can't nice him out of this affair and your wooing won't work. He has someone else fulfilling that need for him right now.

THE very best most...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-26-2013, 02:55 PM
Replies: 123
Views: 8,284
Posted By waiwera
Re: How do I stop their "friendship" (AFFAIR!)

How are you doing committed?
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 05-24-2013, 03:35 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 1,645
Posted By waiwera
Re: All the tell tale signs of cheating...but

Clearly MrK you have special magical eyes that see things no-one else does :rolleyes:

OR

Maybe Alpha just wants some closure.
Maybe he's at the stage of wondering where it all went wrong....
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 05-23-2013, 07:29 PM
Replies: 88
Views: 2,218
Posted By waiwera
Re: Insecure and porn makes it worse...

Oh for goodness sake tacoma are you this rude and dismissive of everyone who disagrees with you.

End of conversation.
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 05-23-2013, 06:45 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 595
Posted By waiwera
Re: Got into a heated fight with wife!

I believe until you two learn how to communicate, like grownups, you won't be able to get this resolved or anything else for that matter.

Every issue you will have to deal with during your married...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 05-23-2013, 03:59 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 389
Posted By waiwera
Re: Wits' end over silence games

As someone who grew up in a home where this was done by the mother.... please don't have children with her until she learns how to communicate like a grown up.
It's not a healthy space for a child...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 05-22-2013, 06:23 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 417
Posted By waiwera
Re: Can a marriage with not trust last??

Yes.... but you'll no doubt end up one of those long term couples who feel they have endured 20, 30, 40 years of marriage instead of having memories of a warm and loving bond with someone you trust...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 05-22-2013, 05:54 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 558
Posted By waiwera
Re: Same ole, with a twist....

Stop all contact with the OW... right now you are a cheater.
Stop it.

Stop looking at CL and dating sites.
You cannot date while you are married..did you not understand that was part of the...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 05-22-2013, 05:37 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 1,645
Posted By waiwera
Re: All the tell tale signs of cheating...but

On it's own i agree with Anon pink but later you post that she IS preening and dressing nicely and your noticing missing time etc...
That changes things....

Having said that... It's almost a...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 05-22-2013, 05:18 PM
Replies: 88
Views: 2,218
Posted By waiwera
Re: Insecure and porn makes it worse...

incognito and private browsing is used to hide what you've been doing. You're suggesting he do this.
In my world hiding stuff from each other is dishonest. Simple.

How will this help their...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 05-22-2013, 04:54 PM
Replies: 88
Views: 2,218
Posted By waiwera
Re: Insecure and porn makes it worse...

tacoma - how is becoming secretive and sneaky going to improve this situation. IMO is make things much worse and her far more insecure.

The OP and her man need to decide if this is a deal breaker...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-20-2013, 02:58 PM
Replies: 51
Views: 1,872
Posted By waiwera
Re: Please help - I think my husband had an emotional affair, and I can't get over it

lillya5512 - so very sorry you're here and going through this.

Personally I think your husband is way way out of line and for me seeing that they exchanged "I love yous" .... that would have been...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-19-2013, 11:13 PM
Replies: 123
Views: 8,284
Posted By waiwera
Re: How do I stop their "friendship" (AFFAIR!)

It's not YOU introducing this pain and damage to them...your H and the OW already did that.
IMO you are saving him....not harming him. Imagine if the situation was reversed, would you want him to...
Forum: The Social Spot 05-19-2013, 07:06 PM
Replies: 61
Views: 809
Posted By waiwera
Re: Your favorite snack today or ever. What are you snacking on?

I love love love peanut butter.

I love it on bread, on crackers, on a slice of apple and ssshhh... don't tell anyone but...sometimes in the middle of the night (just after I take a swig out of...
Forum: The Social Spot 05-19-2013, 06:42 PM
Replies: 136
Views: 2,616
Posted By waiwera
Re: Seriously considering leaving TAM

Elegirl - I hope you don't go (permanently). I know I would miss your posts.

You were one of the first to reply to me when I first came here... all hissing and spitting. You were a sane and...
Forum: Considering Divorce or Separation 05-19-2013, 05:16 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 305
Posted By waiwera
Re: Guidance Please!

What you describe above is not a marriage...well not in my world anyway. It sounds hellish!

Cuddles and affection are normal and healthy and needed in a marriage...as is sex. But you already...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-19-2013, 03:46 PM
Replies: 123
Views: 8,284
Posted By waiwera
Re: How do I stop their "friendship" (AFFAIR!)

Arrhh!! OK I'm mad for you now!
What a stupid thing to say..." nothing will change".

He wants it all doesn't he.... his dream is no doubt he loyal loving family at home and place of his own...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-19-2013, 02:03 AM
Replies: 348
Views: 29,680
Posted By waiwera
Re: Oh Gawd

Wow myka... what a self rightous sh!t he is.

I"m at a loss for words.

I sure hope you D and move on...

All the best!
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