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Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 04-16-2013, 12:30 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 781
Posted By Rob774
Re: waiting too long for proposal?

When a man (or woman) is showing you (and telling) what they are... believe them. He's showing you what he is, but you don't want to hear it, cause it doesn't fit into what you want.

I met, dated,...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 04-15-2013, 08:39 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 463
Posted By Rob774
Re: 10 yrs of this...still don't know what to do!

Sanity stole my thunder. You are definitely in a toxic relationship.

I get what you are saying, it sounds like he was the perfect man, till your mistreatment "changed" him. He probably wasn't...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 04-12-2013, 12:57 PM
Replies: 47
Views: 1,237
Posted By Rob774
Re: Do men like drama, calm or somewhere in between?

When you are young ... late teens, early 20's, who knows even mid - 20's.... the girl with the edge, you felt accomplished because alot of guys would avoid them, because they didn't want to be...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 04-12-2013, 12:46 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 1,168
Posted By Rob774
Re: Should you say no?

You stole that line from an episode of Popeye... I'm telling!!!
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 04-12-2013, 12:39 PM
Replies: 49
Views: 3,020
Posted By Rob774
Re: Threesome drama

I feel bad for you OP... because your husband has manipulated you into enabling his EA/PA. You wanted to do right by him, but placating his threesome notion, but alot of us are starting to think...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 04-01-2013, 10:10 AM
Replies: 69
Views: 3,883
Posted By Rob774
Re: The man she almost married

He didn't wife her cause...

A. She hinted that she didn't want it.

B. He saw her other 2 failed attempts and figured... i'm not going down that road with her, she's obviously not wife material....
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 04-01-2013, 09:52 AM
Replies: 35
Views: 1,274
Posted By Rob774
Re: Short Men vs Overweight Women...Who has it Harder?

Sorry, to me... this isn't even close.

DOn't get me wrong, i know there are some women out there, who won't even look at a man who is shorter than them. My wife, at 5'7, said she had no interest...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 04-01-2013, 09:38 AM
Replies: 30
Views: 1,345
Posted By Rob774
Re: Husband-Female Coworker/Friend Help

I'm kinda doubting you "stumbled" upon this text by mistake, but to me, how you came across their texts is irrelevant. You know how he is, you know how she is, and they attend the same gym, so he...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 04-01-2013, 09:24 AM
Replies: 27
Views: 549
Posted By Rob774
Re: Don't know what to do

You guys have fallen into roomates... and not lovers. You didn't mention your age, but if one of you have a grown kid that's already gone, i'm guessing you are late 40's / early 50's.

I've seen...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 04-01-2013, 09:01 AM
Replies: 51
Views: 1,794
Posted By Rob774
Re: Fallen for a man thirteen years younger than me.

My 2 cents...

They met each others needs perfectly. He's a maturing young man, who comes across a woman he finds very attractive, and is intrigued when he discovers she older than what she looks....
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 02-20-2013, 09:08 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,194
Posted By Rob774
Re: Feel like a failure as a wife

I'm wishing you the best in regards to getting help as soon as possible. It would be a shame that the ghosts of your relationship pasts, destroy your relationship present. It would be like your Ex...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 02-13-2013, 10:32 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 443
Posted By Rob774
Re: Wife left no idea what to do :(

Give her space. Don't try to hound her. If she's broken off contact with you, let her make the first move. I'm not chasing any woman that doesn't wish to be chased.

If people are saying she seems...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 02-13-2013, 10:28 AM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,074
Posted By Rob774
Re: If you could have ANYONE for a spouse

I guesss, as a guy... i think a bit differently. I love my spouse, but if i'm going to get a "get out of jail free card" from her and the man upstairs... i'd choose an old flame. I wouldn't even...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-11-2013, 07:17 AM
Replies: 122
Views: 6,608
Posted By Rob774
Re: Unwanted visit from ex

I discussed your situation with my misses, something in which i rarely do because she says this site puts too many ideas in my head. She assured me, that NO man... comes to see a baby of somebody he...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-08-2013, 01:39 PM
Replies: 122
Views: 6,608
Posted By Rob774
Re: Unwanted visit from ex

Okay, this clears up a lot to me. Thanks. She serioiusly dropped the ball big time. Cause i told my wife along time ago (we are from the same hood, and attended the same HS) if there is somebody at...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-08-2013, 08:48 AM
Replies: 122
Views: 6,608
Posted By Rob774
Re: Unwanted visit from ex

I'm talking to a coworker on this, and i still think ( and i could be wrong) she found herself put on a spot and said anything to pass the awkward moment. She could of run with this lie, but figured...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-08-2013, 08:35 AM
Replies: 122
Views: 6,608
Posted By Rob774
Re: Unwanted visit from ex

If they had moved on from all working together, and had NO contact during that time, then i don't see it as a big deal.

Had i read this wrong??? Did they all 3 work together after the marriage?...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-08-2013, 08:18 AM
Replies: 122
Views: 6,608
Posted By Rob774
Re: Unwanted visit from ex

Okay... i'll play advocate here. Just because i've seen some shady folks during my time.

A. Its not that hard to figure out where she lives, especially since they have mutual friends.

B. His...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-08-2013, 07:51 AM
Replies: 118
Views: 5,256
Posted By Rob774
Re: Is this the beginning?

Okay, i think that was the most disturbing thread i've ever read.

Cliffnotes version for others who haven't read: OP is having a stale marriage, can't even get a kiss with his wife. She starts...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-07-2013, 10:13 AM
Replies: 118
Views: 5,256
Posted By Rob774
Re: Is this the beginning?

I agree, this would make me feel a lot better. But you are not out of the woods yet. This casual, friendly banter... is usually how it starts. He doesn't send emails about getting into her pants the...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-07-2013, 09:20 AM
Replies: 118
Views: 5,256
Posted By Rob774
Re: Is this the beginning?

Update?
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 02-07-2013, 08:53 AM
Replies: 86
Views: 3,541
Posted By Rob774
Re: r there women in marriages who "password protect" their cellphones but r not chea

I know the OP is looking for answers, specifically from the ladies, but i think they pretty much answered that by now. If caught in an affair, you lose the right... to be private about anything. She...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-06-2013, 01:06 PM
Replies: 118
Views: 5,256
Posted By Rob774
Re: Is this the beginning?

Exactly!
If he confronts her, and she's really into this guy... then she goes underground with it. Which is why its essential to the OP to take the advice of others like Toffer mentioning, install...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 02-06-2013, 07:11 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 509
Posted By Rob774
Re: Boyfriend visiting his ex soon.... feeling out of sorts

Ouch!

This is indeed a tough one. I'm big on boundaries, but in this situation... he has to be down there to spend the necessary time with his daughter. He may have every intent on that being...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 02-05-2013, 10:54 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 732
Posted By Rob774
Re: Maybe it's Hopeless?

Take his power away!

Do that by simply ignoring him. Right now... he's in your head, and isn't going anywhere. You are not 12 anymore, you are a grown woman. You are his equal not, not someone...
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