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Forum: Financial Problems in Marriage 04-30-2013, 11:49 AM
Replies: 28
Views: 1,307
Posted By Anubis
Re: Ok so the wife doesnt work

I think the OP is gone.

Brings up some interesting thoughts on how a non-working spouse can lose respect for the working spouse as it relates to money, time and jobs.
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Forum: General Relationship Discussion 04-25-2013, 02:14 AM
Replies: 182
Views: 10,535
Posted By Anubis
Re: SURVEY: Married people only please.

To my first wife? As Emerson Cod would say "Heeeeaaaalll NO".

To the woman I am engaged to right now? I would have sought her out earlier if possible.
Forum: Sex in Marriage 04-25-2013, 02:01 AM
Replies: 58
Views: 2,095
Posted By Anubis
Re: When do you give up?

Honestly? You might not like my honest thoughts, and they may be inaccurate, but what first came to mind is this:

She's comfortable and believes she is in charge of the p***y and has probably...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 04-24-2013, 01:52 AM
Replies: 856
Views: 26,889
Posted By Anubis
Re: Cumulative count for the year

I'd make a joke about the three of you all marrying my ex- (who was into polyamory for a while), but in my observations, there are a lot of women who once they have kids believe they have their...
Forum: Financial Problems in Marriage 04-24-2013, 12:15 AM
Replies: 26
Views: 955
Posted By Anubis
Re: Jealous of friends with money

I've learned that you have to just let all the jealousy go - it'll only wear you out from the inside.

There are always going to be people with more money than you out there, and if you look for...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 04-21-2013, 08:40 PM
Replies: 156
Views: 5,312
Posted By Anubis
Re: Please explain to me how this is wrong.

:iagree::iagree::iagree:

This! If she's "flipped the bit" on you and has decided not tor respect, believe and trust you... there's not a damn thing you can do to change it.

Now before you go...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 04-20-2013, 01:20 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 514
Posted By Anubis
Times when it just wasn't meant to be

I thought I'd try and start a thread to add a little levity to the forum, by sharing those moments when you know that this particular roll in the hay just wasn't meant to be.

My fiance and I were...
Forum: Financial Problems in Marriage 04-20-2013, 12:58 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 391
Posted By Anubis
Re: Prenup a good idea or not?

There may also be issues with the timing of the prenup - if it's signed right before the wedding, in a divorce she could successfully claim it was signed under duress and have it thrown out. Also,...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 04-18-2013, 04:15 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 507
Posted By Anubis
She clearly doesn't speak for all women then. ...

She clearly doesn't speak for all women then. The woman I'm marrying has agreed to those three items among others (and I the recripricol items). We see eye to eye and are having the relevant items...
Forum: Financial Problems in Marriage 04-14-2013, 10:45 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 1,307
Posted By Anubis
Re: Ok so the wife doesnt work

5 to 1 says it was a "whoops" child. :D
Forum: Financial Problems in Marriage 04-14-2013, 10:42 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 1,307
Posted By Anubis
Re: Ok so the wife doesnt work

psrayburn,
That isn't sounding so good... do you mind if we ask a few more question to get a better feel for her personality and your dynamic?

My reason for asking is that I suspect she has...
Forum: Financial Problems in Marriage 04-14-2013, 02:38 AM
Replies: 28
Views: 1,307
Posted By Anubis
Re: Ok so the wife doesnt work

psrayburn,
Your short description gave me some flashbacks. Can you tell us any more detail as to why she calls your job "easy". It sounds as if she has never worked.. is that accurate?

I've...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 04-11-2013, 10:24 AM
Replies: 87
Views: 4,031
Posted By Anubis
Re: Men - Is there a certain "type" of female you are attracted to?

Yes, I most defiantly have a type, and a significant part of it is intellectual. In my life, there have been 6 women (including current fiance) who fit my type nearly perfectly. Lots of little...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 04-08-2013, 11:57 PM
Replies: 548
Views: 15,546
Posted By Anubis
Re: Long hair and sex rank

I once had hair down below my shoulder blades. Cut it off when my first child was born - it seemed like that phase was over with that event. In retrospect, it never was very good on me. I also...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 04-07-2013, 07:09 PM
Replies: 856
Views: 26,889
Posted By Anubis
Re: Cumulative count for the year

Mark,
I've known several women who fit the above description, including my ex-wife. To a one, things won't change/you can't change her, in part because they know they have a position of power...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 04-07-2013, 05:11 AM
Replies: 548
Views: 15,546
Posted By Anubis
Re: Long hair and sex rank

Came in here to post a picture, but I found 18 pages of hair-pulling talk to catch up on first...

Taken yesterday, a bit wild and overdue for a trim (scheduled for this week).
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Forum: Sex in Marriage 04-04-2013, 01:14 AM
Replies: 856
Views: 26,889
Posted By Anubis
Re: Cumulative count for the year

We actually did keep track for a whole month last year just to see what our average likely was (it was 37 times for that month), and we've been rather steady in our drives and situations for the last...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 04-04-2013, 01:10 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 746
Posted By Anubis
Re: No sex in almost 4 months?!

I've seen it go both ways. Pregnancy causing a woman's sex drive to go through the roof, and through the floor. Seems like you got the latter.

Just a word of warning.. If things have been...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 04-03-2013, 11:36 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,468
Posted By Anubis
I've seen this exact situation you've described...

I've seen this exact situation you've described way too many times .
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Forum: Sex in Marriage 04-03-2013, 02:44 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 1,017
Posted By Anubis
Re: Question for the HD.

We're both HD, and aren't showing any signs of slowing down (beyond what aging is doing to me).

Last I checked, my inner pervert said something about candy and went off with her inner pervert...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 04-03-2013, 02:37 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,468
Posted By Anubis
Re: 36 years old- sex in my marriage is NON-existent

I don't like your advice NatureDave and I think it's the wrong approach. Have you ever been in his situation? Are you even a guy as you user name implies? I don't think so and you're dangerously...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 04-01-2013, 11:39 PM
Replies: 856
Views: 26,889
Posted By Anubis
Re: Cumulative count for the year

I ducked, but look at the mess I have to clean up now... sheesh. :rofl:

I'm curious to see if Frustrated comes back with more info. when I was his age I was in a similar situation. Twice in...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 04-01-2013, 10:36 PM
Replies: 856
Views: 26,889
Posted By Anubis
Re: Cumulative count for the year

So if I walk into the thread an announce "2 times".... "since the beginning of April", will I need to duck various things thrown at me? :smthumbup:



Frustrated... your brief posts have the...
Forum: Financial Problems in Marriage 04-01-2013, 02:57 AM
Replies: 74
Views: 2,475
Posted By Anubis
Re: Is it just me or do all "Your money, My money" marriages have trouble?

Never took it the wrong way or as 'old fashioned'. Both of us did the joint account/expecting it to last with a person of similar values things the first time around - that makes a whole lot of...
Forum: Financial Problems in Marriage 03-30-2013, 03:39 AM
Replies: 74
Views: 2,475
Posted By Anubis
Re: Is it just me or do all "Your money, My money" marriages have trouble?

Totally depends on the couple in question. No 'one size fits all' answer here.

My fiance and I and have almost completely separate finances, and we both want it to stay that way once married. ...
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