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Forum: Coping with Infidelity Yesterday, 07:39 PM
Replies: 201
Views: 9,299
Posted By chapparal
Re: When is Jealousy Normal... When is 'Change' Too Much?

He has asked to see her phone at least once and I think twice, she has basically refused.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity Yesterday, 07:11 PM
Replies: 355
Views: 23,353
Posted By chapparal
Re: received some very disturbing news

Normally , we do not recommend talking to the om. However, if she passes the poly, call him and tell him what you heard, your wife admited it and if he ever touches or speaks disrespectfully to her...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity Yesterday, 07:07 PM
Replies: 355
Views: 23,353
Posted By chapparal
Re: received some very disturbing news

Number one check with the state police or large local law enforcementand see who they use for polygraphs. There are a lot of goofs out there.



Since she wants more money to get laid and she is...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity Yesterday, 05:27 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 1,508
Posted By chapparal
Re: Wife is in a PA/EA

I think you should let her know you are prepared to let her go and you and the kids will be fine and looking for a new wife and mom just as she is looking for a new life.

Put the shoe on the other...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-19-2013, 07:38 PM
Replies: 268
Views: 10,674
Posted By chapparal
Re: EA, at least, and my anxiety won't let go

There is no point talking to the om. TALK TO HIS WIFE. DUH
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-19-2013, 07:02 PM
Replies: 201
Views: 9,299
Posted By chapparal
Re: When is Jealousy Normal... When is 'Change' Too Much?

I'm hoping there is no other man. I'm also hoping her gnos aren't her and her buddies playing with boys at cougarville dance club. We have definitely seen that before.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-19-2013, 03:35 PM
Replies: 306
Views: 41,909
Posted By chapparal
Re: suspect my wife ... GPS recommendations?

You should have told her you were hoping she would come back but now she blew it.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-19-2013, 03:12 PM
Replies: 201
Views: 9,299
Posted By chapparal
Re: When is Jealousy Normal... When is 'Change' Too Much?

But in this instance there are a lot of red flags. Instead of dismissing them, they keep multiplying.

A gno every week is absurd, multiple gnos is the kiss of death sooner or later for any...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-19-2013, 02:57 PM
Replies: 495
Views: 26,229
Posted By chapparal
Re: After the Lies - their connection fully revealed

Did I miss something? You started a conversation during sex? Did you you read/understand MMSLP? How repulsive that sounds to me.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-19-2013, 02:43 PM
Replies: 51
Views: 1,530
Posted By chapparal
Re: In Retrospect, I regret exposure.

You know, cheating is looked on kindly by most legislators/lawyers nowadays. That doesn't mean anything. Murder , lying, thieving, adultery are still sins against fellow human beings. And always...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-19-2013, 10:45 AM
Replies: 50
Views: 2,899
Posted By chapparal
Re: Should I be concerned over my wife's relationship with her friend?

The only thing you KNOW at this point is that the POSOM wants to keepnhis wife and likes to bang yours. He doesn't want your wife but just wants to use her.

You need to talk in person to his...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-19-2013, 09:03 AM
Replies: 63
Views: 2,994
Posted By chapparal
Re: How do I stop their "friendship" (AFFAIR!)

Btw, while you are out, stop by a dept. Store and splash a bit of mens cologne on.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-19-2013, 09:02 AM
Replies: 63
Views: 2,994
Posted By chapparal
Re: How do I stop their "friendship" (AFFAIR!)

You need to seriously disabuse your husband of this notion. The next time he brings up how nothing will change, let him know you plan on doing nothing together as you will be quickly looking for a...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-19-2013, 08:41 AM
Replies: 306
Views: 41,909
Posted By chapparal
Re: suspect my wife ... GPS recommendations?

Tendency to cheat a lot!

This us the perfect sitch for cheaterville. Not the kids mother though. However, it is necessary to wipe the smugness from the posom's face while he is competing.

He...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-19-2013, 08:27 AM
Replies: 201
Views: 9,299
Posted By chapparal
Re: When is Jealousy Normal... When is 'Change' Too Much?

Are you not hearing any phone convos at all?
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-19-2013, 08:25 AM
Replies: 201
Views: 9,299
Posted By chapparal
Re: When is Jealousy Normal... When is 'Change' Too Much?

I don't believe you are going to come home smelling of smoke standing outside. I believe they are in someones car or home.

I sometimes work around people smoking around construvtion sites,...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-19-2013, 08:19 AM
Replies: 302
Views: 22,217
Posted By chapparal
Re: Wife cheated with several men, son's not mine, etc.

I would like to point out that more than one dna test is necessary. A couple of years ago a poster found the child was his after the second test.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-19-2013, 08:14 AM
Replies: 355
Views: 23,353
Posted By chapparal
Re: received some very disturbing news

Let me see if I understand you. You are less embarassed by another man poking your wife than you are by doing the detective work to save your family. Wonder what your kids will think of your weak...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-19-2013, 07:53 AM
Replies: 201
Views: 9,299
Posted By chapparal
Re: When is Jealousy Normal... When is 'Change' Too Much?

Depending on the var, you may try adjusting the setting in youf own car. Some make noises that can be turned off too. Study your instruction book. A beep can give the game away.

There are...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-18-2013, 02:05 PM
Replies: 355
Views: 23,353
Posted By chapparal
Re: received some very disturbing news

Tell your wife while she is helping her boyfriend move and get settled, he can help her move out and help with her divorce on grounds of adultery.


Have you read the two books in my signature?...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-18-2013, 01:53 PM
Replies: 1,104
Views: 98,080
Posted By chapparal
Re: Need advice. She might be cheating

It is really great to see a betrayed spouse stand up for himself. Its hard but has to be done.

Good luck to you and your step daughter.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-17-2013, 05:02 PM
Replies: 268
Views: 10,674
Posted By chapparal
Re: EA, at least, and my anxiety won't let go

Print this off and read this with her, it is important to do this together in order to judge her reactions and sincerity.

The Wayward Spouse Instructions

Read this:

Understanding Your...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-17-2013, 04:39 PM
Replies: 355
Views: 23,353
Posted By chapparal
Re: received some very disturbing news

There are links to the two most important books you need in my signature.

Until you can confirm no contact with the other man, your wife is in an emotional affair with an other man at minimum. If...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-17-2013, 03:19 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 393
Posted By chapparal
Re: Sharing the house with a Spouse?

You cannot kick them out. That doesn't mean you cant tell them to leave. It makes a point that you do not want to be around a low life cheat. And quite often they DO leave and it is way better for...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-17-2013, 03:09 PM
Replies: 355
Views: 23,353
Posted By chapparal
Re: received some very disturbing news

BTW, you said her sister was cheated on. Did her sister also cut her husband off sexually? Have you asked your wife that?

Do you coinsider it a coincidence that your sex life vanished about the...
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