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Forum: Coping with Infidelity 04-30-2013, 11:07 PM
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Views: 123,089
Posted By ing
Re: I am back and it gets worse

I haven't posted on your thread since the start and I really have not been posting at all on TAM. Some form of victory there I think:)

Thor. You are just that. A warrior, a classic Alpha and the...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-27-2013, 10:09 PM
Replies: 201
Views: 12,795
Posted By ing
Re: I feel stuck in my affair

One of the things that I hear alot is that he/she makes me feel good.
Makes me feel valuable.

This is incredibly intoxicating for both parties and it is wonderful to have a person building you...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-25-2013, 07:24 PM
Replies: 201
Views: 12,795
Posted By ing
Re: I feel stuck in my affair

Bob Newhart-Stop It - YouTube (http://youtu.be/Ow0lr63y4Mw)
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-25-2013, 06:50 PM
Replies: 201
Views: 12,795
Posted By ing
Re: I feel stuck in my affair

When I first saw this thread I thought it was my ExW. She said almost exaclty the same things.
It was my instinct to save her. As it had always been.
Then one day many years ago the penny dropped...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-25-2013, 04:43 PM
Replies: 98
Views: 16,615
Posted By ing
Re: Just got confirmation- wow. Shocking.

This is really important. Your first aim is to kill the affair because of this.
This is done with exposure and a little time.

Expose the affair. Do this now. Don't wait to hit her with the...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-25-2013, 12:15 AM
Replies: 220
Views: 26,751
Posted By ing
Re: I had an affair and my husband is divorcing me

ditto
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-24-2013, 05:02 PM
Replies: 98
Views: 16,615
Posted By ing
Re: Just got confirmation- wow. Shocking.

Whoaaaa.. Slow down.
Your adrenalin is pumping. Your in massive shock. The person you most loved in your just betrayed you.
In some ways it is good to have seen the photos. In other ways it is...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-22-2013, 08:09 AM
Replies: 220
Views: 26,751
Posted By ing
Re: I had an affair and my husband is divorcing me

Dear Lost
Well done for posting. Many people can not bear this place because it holds up a mirror and in the mirror you will see someone you do not recognise.
You say you want your husband back....
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-15-2013, 05:39 AM
Replies: 57
Views: 2,458
Posted By ing
Re: Cheating is a "symptom" - that hurt!

You didn't put the trash out!
Why is everything so messy!
Left your towel on the floor
Dented the car
squeezed toothpaste in the middle
Sick of picking kids up
Bills are overdue

I know! Ill...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-10-2013, 10:08 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 657
Posted By ing
Re: Is love a choice?

Speak for yourself. I drive a V8 SUV and eat Unicorns for breakfast and sometimes I roast up Bambi for lunch.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-10-2013, 09:03 AM
Replies: 34
Views: 2,517
Posted By ing
Re: 48 hours into finding out, I'm devastated.....

Conditions of MC

1. The affair must be over with OM
2. She must WANT the affair to be over

That is the starting point.

In counseling

1. She needs to agree to be totally transparent.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-22-2013, 07:13 AM
Replies: 1,991
Views: 123,089
Posted By ing
Re: I am back and it gets worse

Hey T.
This is quiet similar to what happened with me. A long, long relationship and then she was gone. She fake attempted R [8 times] but really her heart was not in it. Her mind said. " I want my...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-14-2013, 04:54 PM
Replies: 1,991
Views: 123,089
Posted By ing
Re: I am back and it gets worse

You know, it's funny[almost ] that you say you get timely advice here. I go to see a counselor, probably for the same reason that your clients come to see you. They get stuck, and it takes an...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-11-2013, 02:41 AM
Replies: 1,991
Views: 123,089
Posted By ing
Re: I am back and it gets worse

You know why it looks so bizarre? Because you have absolute proof that she did the things she did. Imagine if you did not have that tape, think how effective the denial would be then.

My ExW...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-09-2013, 05:38 PM
Replies: 299
Views: 9,093
Posted By ing
Re: To any WS:

Your husband knows that you want the OM he can see it in your eyes.
Do you think he is blind and dumb?

My very ExW is that because she thought it was okay to harbor feelings for the OM. She...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-09-2013, 09:58 AM
Replies: 1,991
Views: 123,089
Posted By ing
Re: I am back and it gets worse

Yes, and it hurts like fck. It is 3am here and I have triggered badly on this thread mainly for the reason I did not go on your original thread. Your wife is beyond help. My wife was beyond help....
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-09-2013, 07:42 AM
Replies: 1,991
Views: 123,089
Posted By ing
Re: I am back and it gets worse

White oak is lovely to work and finishes so well. One of the rewards of doing all that work on your plane once it is planed you won't have to touch the timber with sandpaper even on the end grain....
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-09-2013, 07:10 AM
Replies: 1,991
Views: 123,089
Posted By ing
Re: I am back and it gets worse

You used a metal dowel then:) Just to furhter distract you rather clumsily and obviously..

The type of plane you use is not that important, although a No 5 1/2 Stanley is a nice start! It is the...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-09-2013, 12:20 AM
Replies: 43
Views: 1,705
Posted By ing
Re: The Cheater's Friend site? It's closed!

can someone please PM the "other sites" I use them for research purposes..
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-08-2013, 11:16 PM
Replies: 1,991
Views: 123,089
Posted By ing
Re: I am back and it gets worse

Nice. Through tenons. Did you wedge them?
What is the timber?
Have you started the design of the new one. Hint.. hint
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-08-2013, 08:00 PM
Replies: 1,991
Views: 123,089
Posted By ing
Re: I am back and it gets worse

I know you can't through her out. Cut her Internet off.. Just block her at the router then she will go out!
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-08-2013, 06:18 PM
Replies: 1,991
Views: 123,089
Posted By ing
Re: I am back and it gets worse

Glad your on drugs man... Missed that you had got that sorted.
As you know it will help you think clearly. I wish that I has stayed on them longer.

Louise7 offered something that I was...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-08-2013, 07:04 AM
Replies: 1,991
Views: 123,089
Posted By ing
Re: I am back and it gets worse

Hi..
I had the same thing. It is basically your mind and body overloaded.
It is a REALLY GOOD IDEA to take the PTSD pills at the moment as they have an anti-anxiety component. Her being in the...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-07-2013, 07:08 AM
Replies: 213
Views: 15,254
Posted By ing
Re: Going to need support: Wife cheated, starting 180

Your doing what i did, so a few tips.

You are still engaging with her.
Don't!

You are trying to solve her problems still. You have been doing it for 17 years. It will take time to learn not...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-06-2013, 02:40 PM
Replies: 180
Views: 9,508
Posted By ing
Re: Another player confession!!

It can't be true..
He used a condom :P

Anyway. It is not about him. It is about her. She chose to do it. I love the bit about her "not getting attention". She just wanted to fck someone else and...
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