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Forum: Suggestion Box 03-23-2015, 11:31 PM
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Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Listing of Banned Members and when ban will be lifted?

Not often you get to see the thread that got a person banned.

Can we get a subscription service for a fee?
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 03-20-2015, 02:00 PM
Replies: 1,333
Views: 34,158
Posted By SurpriseMyself
I have, and he says he understands why I would...

I have, and he says he understands why I would feel that way. I don't really talk about it with him anymore, though. I'm the past he has said I'm a hypochondriac. I've also commented, when I was...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 03-20-2015, 01:47 PM
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Views: 34,158
Posted By SurpriseMyself
In a way, yes. They had limited means in...

In a way, yes. They had limited means in retirement and spent their discretionary $ on his dream to retire in the mountains. There was no $ left to travel. To give you an idea, my dad gave me all he...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 03-20-2015, 12:57 PM
Replies: 1,333
Views: 34,158
Posted By SurpriseMyself
You do learn, and I'm sure there are plenty if...

You do learn, and I'm sure there are plenty if benefits to staying. I see so many in my own; probably why it's been so hard to make a decision.

But I also think about my mom. She separated from my...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 03-20-2015, 10:30 AM
Replies: 1,333
Views: 34,158
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Why women leave men they love

What SA said about the spouse not communicating makes it worse is absolutely true for me.

To Chilly's point, my H does many many things that make him a great husband. He is neat and organized and...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 03-20-2015, 07:37 AM
Replies: 1,333
Views: 34,158
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Yea, I know that wasn't what it meant and that a...

Yea, I know that wasn't what it meant and that a pastor probably would never say that.

My point is that do our vows really mean that no matter how miserable and lonely and frustrated you are, you...
Forum: The Family & Parenting Forums 03-20-2015, 05:22 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 710
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: What is Happening with Our Girls?

I think a developer should come up with an "At School" app that is required for all kids at school. When they are there, the app does not allow any pics or social media and the only texts can go to...
Forum: The Family & Parenting Forums 03-19-2015, 04:23 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 710
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: What is Happening with Our Girls?

Curse words? What about teenagers sending each other naked pics and looking at porn? It's going on!!
Forum: Suggestion Box 03-19-2015, 04:20 PM
Replies: 2,822
Views: 154,890
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Listing of Banned Members and when ban will be lifted?

What is going on around here! Why are people getting so angry at each other that they can't help but post something that is a ban-able offense.
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 03-19-2015, 04:18 PM
Replies: 1,333
Views: 34,158
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Why women leave men they love

That's pretty clear where I live. If you bring tangible assets into the marriage, they are yours. It's called separate property. I'm sure every state has their own laws. In my state we can draw up...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 03-19-2015, 04:12 PM
Replies: 1,333
Views: 34,158
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Why women leave men they love

But pastor, he/she vowed to be my lawfully wedded(husband/wife), to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, until death do...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 03-19-2015, 04:10 PM
Replies: 1,333
Views: 34,158
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Why women leave men they love

They don't take half of all you worked for. All that the two of you have worked for together is divided in half. There's a big difference.
Forum: Sex in Marriage 03-19-2015, 02:41 PM
Replies: 60
Views: 2,624
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: I hate to share this

The guys did get a "meh!" :smthumbup:
Forum: Sex in Marriage 03-19-2015, 01:58 PM
Replies: 60
Views: 2,624
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: I hate to share this

Interesting.... There's a TED talk about this very phenomena. I've posted on TAM quite a few times and no so much as a "meh" from the guys. I haven't posted it since.
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 03-19-2015, 01:10 PM
Replies: 1,333
Views: 34,158
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Why women leave men they love

Can't pay me to click on that link!
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 03-19-2015, 12:52 PM
Replies: 1,333
Views: 34,158
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 03-19-2015, 12:50 PM
Replies: 176
Views: 6,306
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Problems in marriage, WAW - Question for women

I'm on my way there, although I won't call it getting "rid of" my H. And while I hope to be happy, I think it's going to hurt for a while. Hurt because it's what no one wants. Hurts because my H is a...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 03-19-2015, 12:10 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,281
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Letter to my H - On emotional connection, forgiveness, and love

I've considered it many times. I need to look into what my insurance covers, as paying out of pocket right now isn't an option.
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 03-19-2015, 11:47 AM
Replies: 1,333
Views: 34,158
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Why women leave men they love

I see what you are saying, and I think many men feel that it is. And i'm sure there are plenty of examples on both sides.

My H was sure he would be financially ruined. He was furious about it....
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 03-19-2015, 11:33 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,281
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Letter to my H - On emotional connection, forgiveness, and love

He knows. It doesn't matter. He's done, too. He said to me just this morning that he doesn't understand why women need emotional intimacy, and that he thinks that being emotionally connected is an...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 03-19-2015, 11:31 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,281
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Letter to my H - On emotional connection, forgiveness, and love

Wow Zouz. I started crying just reading this. There is no hope of that for me, unfortunately. If I did show it to him, he would just get angry at me. But I really appreciate you saying this.
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 03-19-2015, 11:24 AM
Replies: 1,333
Views: 34,158
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Why women leave men they love

This really is fairly ridiculous. My H won't move out, so I have to. Most judges want the kids to remain in the family home, so that is already a strike against me. But I am only asking for equal...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 03-19-2015, 11:12 AM
Replies: 1,333
Views: 34,158
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Why women leave men they love

If my prior post was deemed discourteous or lacking decorum, I apologize.
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 03-19-2015, 09:50 AM
Replies: 1,333
Views: 34,158
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Why women leave men they love

Well, I need to fess up. I didn't say that to my H, nor do I believe it.

I wrote that because my H said to me today that he thinks that emotional intimacy is unnatural for the vast majority of...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 03-19-2015, 08:40 AM
Replies: 1,333
Views: 34,158
Posted By SurpriseMyself
Re: Why women leave men they love

So I said to my H this morning that I don't understand why the vast majority of men need sexual intimacy. Why do they expect something that is just so unnatural to women?
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