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Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 08-14-2012, 05:02 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 566
Posted By canguy66
Re: I'm back

Oh man... that made me smile.

Melissa - great to hear you're doing better. The independence and strength you've achieved is an inspiration to TAM members.
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 08-09-2012, 09:24 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 911
Posted By canguy66
Re: having a terrible birthday already

Happy Birthday!! I hope you do something to celebrate or at least enjoy the day a bit!

Sorry to hear you're feeling down, but please do something nice for yourself. You're worth it, ya know. :)
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 08-02-2012, 01:02 PM
Replies: 840
Views: 30,549
Posted By canguy66
Re: This is hard.

Yeah, I deserved that.

Whuuuuuuut???? ;)
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 08-02-2012, 12:49 PM
Replies: 840
Views: 30,549
Posted By canguy66
Re: This is hard.

Think of is as not settling for someone you know isn't a good fit. It's not about entitlement, but know about what and who you should settle for.



You mean illusion. ;) His loss, your gain....
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 08-02-2012, 12:32 PM
Replies: 840
Views: 30,549
Posted By canguy66
Re: This is hard.

If I may infer, part of waking up is self-actualization, having an awareness about what you want/need/desire from life and others, and a realization that you're worth more than staying in a status...
Forum: The Social Spot 08-02-2012, 12:26 PM
Replies: 3,835
Views: 60,612
Posted By canguy66
Re: Bandit's Refugees thread - check in!

Hey Bandit! Nice to see you're back. Still seeing the gym manager? Things with my new gf continue to progress nicely. I'm just gearing back a bit to enjoy the scenery, but am not afraid of the...
Forum: The Social Spot 07-29-2012, 06:47 PM
Replies: 3,835
Views: 60,612
Posted By canguy66
Re: Bandit's Refugees thread - check in!

I stubbed my toe, not once, not twice, but thrice. I got attacked by a wandering giraffe who escaped from a zoo. Fortunately, I was able to lure it back to its cage by playing my harmonica (Motorhead...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 07-29-2012, 06:40 PM
Replies: 414
Views: 19,344
Posted By canguy66
Re: Just moved out - very lonely and angry

Hi BH,

Sorry for not being around and sorry to see you're still hurting. Glad to see you taking our advice and working through this, despite the pain and difficulty. That will subside, but the...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 07-29-2012, 05:50 PM
Replies: 57
Views: 1,572
Posted By canguy66
Re: OOH - The key to a successful marriage?

OOH are good best practices, but are they truly keys to success? Imho, a successful marriage cannot be quantified. There is no formula. Chemistry and dynamic are a very important part of success....
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 07-28-2012, 07:58 AM
Replies: 47
Views: 1,409
Posted By canguy66
Re: Abuse of Process

Conrad, very sorry things are not progressing the way you'd hoped. It has been good to see you two show some promise after you've spent to much time helping others.

One of the most difficult...
Forum: The Social Spot 07-26-2012, 11:59 AM
Replies: 3,835
Views: 60,612
Posted By canguy66
Re: Bandit's Refugees thread - check in!

Again? Man! TAM admins are way too anal.
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 07-25-2012, 06:23 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,105
Posted By canguy66
Re: I think I married a narcissist

I certainly did. This described my ex very well. Sound accurate for yours?

What is Narcissistic Personality (http://www.therapist4me.com/What%20is%20NPD.htm)
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 07-24-2012, 03:22 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 993
Posted By canguy66
Re: You ever wander?

I'm a 7.5 month "veteran" of this process. My WAW separated after wanting to leave three times. She claims is was because she was unhappy, they were were not the right people for each other, and...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 07-23-2012, 10:02 AM
Replies: 840
Views: 30,549
Posted By canguy66
Re: This is hard.

I agree, jpr. You've always asked me "does this make sense?", and it always has.

My new girlfriend said one of the things she likes about me is that she never has to wonder what I'm thinking - I...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 07-16-2012, 05:54 AM
Replies: 840
Views: 30,549
Posted By canguy66
Re: This is hard.

Holy frack... there are some things that cannot be unread. ;)

Actually, thanks for the reminder. I need to manscape, and that will include a close shave of my own. A very careful one, that is.
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 07-15-2012, 05:58 AM
Replies: 86
Views: 3,249
Posted By canguy66
Re: The Positive/Happy Thread

Having your great first vacation after the separation, after healing and after closure. Mine was to Montreal, and it was amazing. Made feel free, strong and independent. Fun time.
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 07-13-2012, 01:33 PM
Replies: 840
Views: 30,549
Posted By canguy66
Re: This is hard.

Well said, and I agree 100%.

My girlfriend (feels so good to type that) says she loves me for me, loves everything about me including that I'm a little bit geeky (and so is she).

Don't settle....
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 07-13-2012, 08:48 AM
Replies: 840
Views: 30,549
Posted By canguy66
Re: This is hard.

What a jerk. Clearly, to me anyway, this was his way of projecting his inadequacies on you. This speaks highly of his insecurities, his disrespect and cruelty. A mean-spirited comment is one thing....
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 07-08-2012, 06:11 AM
Replies: 867
Views: 31,537
Posted By canguy66
Re: when does it get better?

Spun, first off, I am sorry you're going through this. My walk through hell started in December 2011. It took me 3.5 months to grieve the loss of my marriage, and another 3 to get closure. In my...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 07-01-2012, 08:05 PM
Replies: 414
Views: 19,344
Posted By canguy66
Re: Just moved out - very lonely and angry

Maybe "grounded" was not the best choice of words. I meant to say you're doing a good job being part of your solution, with the actions you're taking to pull yourself out of this emotional rut. Too...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 07-01-2012, 01:49 PM
Replies: 840
Views: 30,549
Posted By canguy66
Re: This is hard.

jpr, sorry you're feeling down in the dumps, but we both know this is temporary. :) Many people have given you their $0.02 worth here, and very good advice.



Yes it does. Completely. I was open...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 07-01-2012, 07:42 AM
Replies: 414
Views: 19,344
Posted By canguy66
Re: Just moved out - very lonely and angry

In some cases, some marriages can survive affairs. I am not an expert on this, as my ex simply walked away, at least to my knowledge. Trust is of paramount importance to me, and once violated like...
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 06-29-2012, 06:38 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 776
Posted By canguy66
Re: So what kind of shenanigans are we all getting into this weekend

Tomorrow night I go on my first date in about 9 years, 7.5 months after my ex left.

No complaints. :)
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 06-29-2012, 05:43 PM
Replies: 414
Views: 19,344
Posted By canguy66
Re: Just moved out - very lonely and angry

As much as it hurts, better you know.

I am very sorry.
Forum: Going Through Divorce or Separation 06-29-2012, 08:04 AM
Replies: 414
Views: 19,344
Posted By canguy66
Re: Just moved out - very lonely and angry

Several of us have been there. We're here for you, but I would recommend you find someone to speak with. Have you looked for any support groups in your area? I would strongly recommend you do.

The...
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