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Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 06-17-2013, 10:51 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 381
Posted By COguy
Re: Was told I was love starved by a woman counselor today.

No but there's plenty of people in that context will do things to get the feeling of being "loved". If you're craving love you're more likely to put others before yourself in exchange for the...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 06-17-2013, 05:40 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 567
Posted By COguy
Re: jealousy

Meaning that "nice guys" who typically don't care what our women do normally, when they get that "something isn't right feeling" or that "I'm getting jealous feeling", there is usually a reason for...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 06-17-2013, 05:32 PM
Replies: 63
Views: 2,076
Posted By COguy
Re: Perfect BF cheated.. :(

The world is filled with idiots with good intentions. Take it from a group of anonymous internet strangers. Many of us have been cheated on, many of us tried reconciliation, many of us ended up...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 06-17-2013, 04:07 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 567
Posted By COguy
Re: jealousy

I've disagreed with many of your posts. This is not one of them. Holy crap you are so spot on, I love it. My thoughts exactly.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 06-17-2013, 04:05 PM
Replies: 63
Views: 2,076
Posted By COguy
Re: Perfect BF cheated.. :(

You must be young...

9 months is not a very long time to know anyone, let alone be getting married to someone.

In that time, which should be purely bells and sunshine and roses, he cheated on...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 06-17-2013, 04:03 PM
Replies: 31
Views: 1,258
Posted By COguy
Re: Should I stay or should I go?

People talk about "The Fog" of cheaters...I doubt it exists for serials.

But more dangerous is "The Fog" of the betrayed spouse. Who think the world will be OK and that this is just a phase that...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 06-17-2013, 03:49 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 567
Posted By COguy
Re: jealousy

Hey welcome to the club. The club of guys who didn't want to be "that controlling guy" and so we let our wives do crap we resented deep down.

We all hang around internet marriage forums now...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 06-17-2013, 03:39 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 531
Posted By COguy
Re: What I read - and deleted - on my wife's phone

So many things wrong with your post.

1. As just stated, someone with a cluster B would never read that and go "OMG I need help!". The most likely outcome is that they would read it and say, "Hey...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 06-17-2013, 03:31 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 745
Posted By COguy
Re: Facebook Issues

I wouldn't make a big deal about the privacy of the relationship status.

What is more telling is that he never posts pictures of you. I noticed that about my ex. It was always herself or the...
Forum: Life After Divorce 06-17-2013, 03:03 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 567
Posted By COguy
Re: The awkwardness

It probably depends on how batsh*t insane your ex is.

In my case, people are like, "What the heck happened to <ex>??" So there's absolutely no awkwardness at all.
Forum: Life After Divorce 06-17-2013, 02:56 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 571
Posted By COguy
Re: Age Difference AND Kids

I wouldn't spend 2 seconds thinking about any relationship until you've met them in person, and spent significant time like that.

The internet has a way of making relationships seem more...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 06-17-2013, 02:45 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 842
Posted By COguy
Re: Flirting, what crosses the line for you?

If you would not do or say it in front of your partner, it crosses the line.

That's the most practical test I can think of.
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 06-17-2013, 02:40 PM
Replies: 147
Views: 5,065
Posted By COguy
Re: When considering whether to date a man, do you consider this?

I just tell women I'm dating that I'm gigantic, know how to use it, and that I am awesome at oral too.

That way when they sleep with me on the first date, the expectations are low.

But not...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 06-17-2013, 02:19 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 381
Posted By COguy
Re: Was told I was love starved by a woman counselor today.

Do you find yourself "needing to be needed"?

Are you a white knight type? You like to be the hero in shining armor?

If so, I would recommend reading "No More Mr. Nice Guy" and checking out...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 06-17-2013, 02:14 PM
Replies: 73
Views: 2,365
Posted By COguy
Re: Started with a 4some...

You can discuss fantasy all you want, but before your wife gets banged BY YOUR BEST FRIEND, there should at least be an agreement about it.

Your hurt and pissed because the woman you loved was...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 06-16-2013, 10:19 PM
Replies: 113
Views: 9,649
Posted By COguy
Re: Want my wife back

I was in a similar situation as you so I can't say I blame you for trying to make this work. When someone we love deeply betrays us we want to believe the best in them. We want to believe they are...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 06-16-2013, 01:59 PM
Replies: 112
Views: 3,041
Posted By COguy
Re: Wife Can't Stand My Weekly Guys Night Out...

he's not doing a BNO. He's doing a boys night in. healthy relationships involve having healthy same sex friendships. you can't do that if you never spend time with them.


your advice is...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 06-15-2013, 06:22 AM
Replies: 112
Views: 3,041
Posted By COguy
Re: Wife Can't Stand My Weekly Guys Night Out...

exactly. at all times you must be calm and rational, do not give in to tantrums.


you will need counseling but I promise if you just walk into a regular marriage counselor you are not going to...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 06-14-2013, 09:38 PM
Replies: 112
Views: 3,041
Posted By COguy
Re: Wife Can't Stand My Weekly Guys Night Out...

my suggestion is to start recording your interactions like this. she is going to distort reality. by having objective evidence of what was said and how it came across, you can review the conversation...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 06-14-2013, 06:32 PM
Replies: 112
Views: 3,041
Posted By COguy
Re: Wife Can't Stand My Weekly Guys Night Out...

we're not on the same page with this one?

I meant no disrespect, you're a hero in my eyes.
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 06-14-2013, 04:51 PM
Replies: 112
Views: 3,041
Posted By COguy
Re: Wife Can't Stand My Weekly Guys Night Out...

Just read this. Your wife definitely has issues.

Scarlet's response is telling, as she used to be "the enemy" in a former life.

The MO is isolate then manipulate.

Start reading some stuff...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 06-14-2013, 03:46 PM
Replies: 112
Views: 3,041
Posted By COguy
Re: Wife Can't Stand My Weekly Guys Night Out...

I agree 100%.

Based on the small amount of info I've seen on her reaction, I'd expect that she's still upset at once a month and that this relationship will ultimately end with her cheating...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 06-14-2013, 02:26 PM
Replies: 112
Views: 3,041
Posted By COguy
Re: Wife Can't Stand My Weekly Guys Night Out...

I'm going to skip 2 pages of responses.

I agree with the other posters that once a week may be a bit much, depending on how much other time you are spending with her and the quality of that time....
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 06-13-2013, 03:18 PM
Replies: 47
Views: 1,045
Posted By COguy
Re: Husband wants "first married" life

Unfortunately this is extremely common in marriage, especially after kids.

Both you and your husband are going to have to come together to find the solution. It will probably be a balance of him...
Forum: Life After Divorce 06-12-2013, 12:57 PM
Replies: 54
Views: 999
Posted By COguy
Re: Co-Parenting.

I know this won't help your situation, but I can say that you have a really good problem to be having.

Must be nice to be coparenting so well that it blurs boundary lines.

The alternative is...
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