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Forum: General Relationship Discussion 01-27-2013, 08:46 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 984
Posted By Cogo123
Re: Why do men cheat on their wives??

I agree with coffee. It is easier to hide behind the fact you are unhappy and find someone who will make you happy since that person is too afraid or unwilling to confront your spouse. It is so...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 01-27-2013, 08:17 PM
Replies: 52
Views: 1,718
Posted By Cogo123
Re: Need opinions from married women.....

Wow! I can tell you that you seem to be doing everything right. If my husband did half that I would be happy. You cannot make someone go to counseling. They have to want to make your relationship...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 01-26-2013, 05:03 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 767
Posted By Cogo123
Re: humor or should i be concerned

Thanks Ele. I think I may try a family member for help with staying somewhere. I appreciate your comments.
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Forum: General Relationship Discussion 01-26-2013, 05:01 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 767
Posted By Cogo123
Re: humor or should i be concerned

I don't think my parents can handle the lifestyle change. Having an 11yr old your daughter and an 18 yr old is a big change. I am sure they would help but told my sisters that it would be hard for...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 01-26-2013, 04:56 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 767
Posted By Cogo123
Re: humor or should i be concerned

I guess I am scared to be on my own not knowing what will happen to me filing for banruptcy. His sister even notices changes in him and has given up all contact with him because he chooses to ignore...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 01-26-2013, 04:14 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 767
Posted By Cogo123
Re: humor or should i be concerned

No she never actually seen him. He thinks going is a waste of time. Her diagnosis is based on my experiences with him. He has issues I agree with that. I have tried to leave in the past but he...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 01-26-2013, 03:41 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 767
Posted By Cogo123
I'm only here because of finances. I work full...

I'm only here because of finances. I work full time but make less than $45,000 yr.
It's difficult to live on one income. Our house is upside down on the mortgage. Neither of us can afford alone. I...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 01-26-2013, 02:40 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 303
Posted By Cogo123
Re: help

From what you have written it sounds like you never be happy and always be taken advantage of if you stay with him. You deserve better. Who wants to be a relationship where you are not reapected and...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 01-26-2013, 02:13 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 767
Posted By Cogo123
Re: humor or should i be concerned

Last night he played til 3:30 in the morning. He is going back on now to play more. He plays all weekends. Some weekdays. Would that have anything to do with his behavior?
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Forum: General Relationship Discussion 01-26-2013, 02:09 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 767
Posted By Cogo123
Re: humor or should i be concerned

Yes he plays war games all the time.
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Forum: General Relationship Discussion 01-26-2013, 01:37 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 767
Posted By Cogo123
Re: humor or should i be concerned

No guns in the house thankfully.
I thank you for your input. Just didn't want to say anything if it was just me who thought it was weird.
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Forum: General Relationship Discussion 01-26-2013, 01:33 PM
Replies: 114
Views: 5,973
Posted By Cogo123
Re: My Pathetic Fxckvjdkding story ugh!

It is a good thing you walked away from the relationship. Way too much drama for anyone to have to endure. You will find someone who treats you as you should be treated. Until then enjoy being...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 01-26-2013, 01:03 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 767
Posted By Cogo123
humor or should i be concerned

My husband regularly jokes around about stress and then says he's going to kill the family. He says it jokingly but is that normal? I respond by saying you are not right. I say let me know before...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 01-23-2013, 03:28 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 405
Posted By Cogo123
Hubby is nice to me when he wants to be. He can...

Hubby is nice to me when he wants to be. He can be very charming when he has to be. If he knows he was being impossible then he tries to appear like he cares. If it's his 11yr old who wants to spend...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 01-21-2013, 11:44 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 737
Posted By Cogo123
Re: Married 31 years but?

It does seem like you have become disenchanted with her because she relies on you too much. Almost like if she were more independent and able to provide for herself a little more you may look @ her...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 01-20-2013, 04:44 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 737
Posted By Cogo123
Re: Married 31 years but?

It seems like you need to reciprocate with sending her notes, flowers just calling and telling her how much you miss her. Sometimes we take each other for granted and get into a routine. Would it or...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 01-19-2013, 03:59 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 405
Posted By Cogo123
returning after counseling

Hitello. I have not been on here in a while.
I am having marital issues still. My husband & I have been married 21 yrs. We started going to the gym in March and he has lost over 80 lbs and I have...
Forum: The Family & Parenting Forums 07-16-2012, 07:17 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 579
Posted By Cogo123
He has always been this way. I can't figure out...

He has always been this way. I can't figure out why a father wouldn't want to spend time with his son.
Its almost like he doesn't want to be bothered & he truly does not enjoy having them around. He...
Forum: The Family & Parenting Forums 07-08-2012, 09:18 PM
Replies: 39
Views: 2,020
Posted By Cogo123
Re: Verbally Abusive or Discipline?

Thanks for the explanation and letting me see another side of the story. Sometimes it takes a disinterested third party to help you see things that are difficult to understand. I will try to step...
Forum: The Family & Parenting Forums 07-08-2012, 02:20 PM
Replies: 39
Views: 2,020
Posted By Cogo123
Re: Verbally Abusive or Discipline?

I do tend to feel sorry for them for having to deal with him.
It is a tough place to be when you do not want to see them hurt & you know he is being an idiot towards them. He does not allow them to...
Forum: The Family & Parenting Forums 07-08-2012, 12:31 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 632
Posted By Cogo123
Re: I'm a doormat!!

I do believe its the age of your child and how much we let them get away with things. I have an 18 yr old son.
We go thru a lot of the same situations, or we did, until we stopped and told him you...
Forum: The Family & Parenting Forums 07-08-2012, 10:50 AM
Replies: 39
Views: 2,020
Posted By Cogo123
Re: Verbally Abusive or Discipline?

My husband's response to my comments about him being too harsh or mean are I have to teach them they canot get away with stuff. Your way, which is talking to him rationally, doesn't work so I have to...
Forum: The Family & Parenting Forums 07-08-2012, 10:48 AM
Replies: 39
Views: 2,020
Posted By Cogo123
Re: Verbally Abusive or Discipline?

How do I get my husband to see that he is wrong? He is going to be very upset with me for bringing up the fact that his parenting skills could be the cause of our kids current behaviour? He will so...
Forum: The Family & Parenting Forums 07-04-2012, 03:10 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 545
Posted By Cogo123
Re: hubby vs. kids

My husband and I have been married form 20yrs. Both boys are ours. He doesn't favor either one differently. He treats them equally bad. We ultimately will end up together in the end but for now we...
Forum: The Family & Parenting Forums 07-04-2012, 10:46 AM
Replies: 39
Views: 2,020
Posted By Cogo123
Re: Verbally Abusive or Discipline?

He was the same. Maybe a little worse with him. He didn't know how to control him since he was a kid and they can be challenging to raise. My oldest is now 18. He is very nervous. He always looks to...
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