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Forum: Sex in Marriage 03-21-2013, 08:04 AM
Replies: 107
Views: 4,883
Posted By Bottled Up
Re: Am I being Whiny - Are my sexual expectations TOO HIGH ? Husband can not do "ROUG

SA, I really do admire your optimistic nature and your steadfast defensive loyalty towards your husband in all regards. And you know him best, so if you believe him that's really all that matters.
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Forum: Sex in Marriage 03-20-2013, 01:34 PM
Replies: 107
Views: 4,883
Posted By Bottled Up
Re: Am I being Whiny - Are my sexual expectations TOO HIGH ? Husband can not do "ROUG

Didn't you say your husband doesn't masturbate? And if so, are you so absolutely sure about that???

Call me crazy but I find that watching porn goes hand-in-hand with sexual activity... If you're...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 03-19-2013, 12:13 AM
Replies: 107
Views: 4,883
Posted By Bottled Up
Re: Am I being Whiny - Are my sexual expectations TOO HIGH ? Husband can not do "ROUG

Wow, this is one heck of an awesome idea ILO!!! Totally love it.
Forum: Sex in Marriage 03-19-2013, 12:05 AM
Replies: 107
Views: 4,883
Posted By Bottled Up
Re: Am I being Whiny - Are my sexual expectations TOO HIGH ? Husband can not do "ROUG

SA, your husband and my wife seriously sound like the same people... my situation is almost identical to yours, just gender roles reversed.

My wife is the classic stereotypical conservative,...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 03-18-2013, 03:15 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 477
Posted By Bottled Up
Re: The case for monogamy

Wow, what a huge let-down... thanks for pointing this out to me. I thought it was well-written and with a genuine tune of remorse, but now I'm just disgusted to learn it's probably a self-serving...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 03-15-2013, 02:27 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 477
Posted By Bottled Up
Re: The case for monogamy

Huh??? Where did you get all that dirt on this guy??? I didn't see any of that stuff anywhere...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 03-15-2013, 11:50 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 477
Posted By Bottled Up
The case for monogamy

I just stumbled upon this article written back in 2011 and it's a fantastic, well-thought-out read about monogamy. The author, now in his 4th marriage, describes his own revelations on the subject...
Forum: Long Term Success in Marriage 03-15-2013, 09:18 AM
Replies: 26
Views: 1,481
Posted By Bottled Up
Re: How to Bring Back the Intimacy in Marriage

I think Mavash might be on to something as well here. I work from home and my wife is an introvert so we don't go out that often... I'm more of the socialite in our relationship than she is. So I...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 03-15-2013, 12:36 AM
Replies: 47
Views: 1,339
Posted By Bottled Up
Re: Lying to a spouse.....

Sometimes it's just to avoid a potential confrontation over something so miniscule but might be met with overreaction... some lies are over something so small or insignificant you may not even...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-15-2013, 12:25 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 497
Posted By Bottled Up
Re: Been fighting with my WH a lot lately, y does he forgive instantly?

I believe this is at the core of everything you're feeling right now and you may not even realize that. Because for reconciliation to work, it takes an absolute 110% commitment from both people to...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 03-15-2013, 12:08 AM
Replies: 47
Views: 1,339
Posted By Bottled Up
Re: Lying to a spouse.....

Anyone who says they never lie to a spouse is technically a liar :D

Really, no one condones lying and fundamentally no one supports lying, but in reality we all lie at some point to protect either...
Forum: Long Term Success in Marriage 03-14-2013, 11:57 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 1,481
Posted By Bottled Up
Re: How to Bring Back the Intimacy in Marriage

karole, one idea I always fancied is this thought about trying to make my wife my "affair partner". As taboo as the topic is, the whole rush that people feel when having affairs is because they take...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 03-14-2013, 11:32 PM
Replies: 145
Views: 5,510
Posted By Bottled Up
Re: When A Man Looks At Your Wife

LOL. I'm just playin' with ya Trenton... I had a huge grin on my face the whole time as I typed that one to you. ;)
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-14-2013, 11:30 PM
Replies: 46
Views: 2,724
Posted By Bottled Up
Re: what to do...she cheated on me

Or just keep the gifts and return the wife.
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 03-14-2013, 11:28 PM
Replies: 145
Views: 5,510
Posted By Bottled Up
Re: When A Man Looks At Your Wife

Yeah but from kiss to snore in 10 minutes? By not capitalizing on your swooning, he totally just botched his Alphaness with a huge Beta move. ;)
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-14-2013, 11:21 PM
Replies: 46
Views: 2,724
Posted By Bottled Up
Re: what to do...she cheated on me

How abnormal... Usually the betrayed are wracked with painful confusion asking a million questions trying to understand why their loved one would do such a hurtful and heartless thing to them. It's a...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 03-14-2013, 11:06 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 1,119
Posted By Bottled Up
Re: Oral and rarely PIV

^ This



^ And this

Seems to me your man is insecure about premature ejaculation so he's gravitating towards anything that typically helps him last longer. I'm willing to bet having sex in...
Forum: The Men's Clubhouse 03-14-2013, 10:39 PM
Replies: 145
Views: 5,510
Posted By Bottled Up
Re: When A Man Looks At Your Wife

It's pointless getting upset over someone else checking out your spouse... you can't control the world and it's a hypocritical move acting like you don't do the same. We have eyes, we look and we...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 02-03-2013, 12:49 AM
Replies: 694
Views: 21,567
Posted By Bottled Up
Re: Please help me...

This is a clear signal she is sending you that she doesn't want you anymore.



You are correct, and this means she has completely moved on from you already. Time to start gathering your...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 02-01-2013, 04:10 PM
Replies: 211
Views: 6,800
Posted By Bottled Up
Re: What is it with some of the men here?

I'm not denying I want to get laid like tile, but I'm not objectifying my wife in the whole process of it either. Women like to get "laid" just as much as men do, so why does that "jargon" have to be...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 02-01-2013, 03:04 PM
Replies: 211
Views: 6,800
Posted By Bottled Up
Re: What is it with some of the men here?

Poetic Lon. <applause>
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 02-01-2013, 02:17 PM
Replies: 211
Views: 6,800
Posted By Bottled Up
Re: What is it with some of the men here?

Not a "bad" opinion at all, because I also don't believe MMSL to be the-all and end-all of relationship guidance. I actually like to promote a blend of 3 books as a total consideration for...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 02-01-2013, 02:02 PM
Replies: 211
Views: 6,800
Posted By Bottled Up
Re: What is it with some of the men here?

Ok, you're obviously not even trying to understand at this point. Mock it all you want, but don't go creating a thread topic asking a question if you're not even capable of handling the answers.
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 02-01-2013, 01:58 PM
Replies: 211
Views: 6,800
Posted By Bottled Up
Re: What is it with some of the men here?

I know you're unhappy – when I said "And if you're happy with your husband as he is, then that's fantastic... he's already doing it right. But for the other unhappy relationships, there's MMSL." I...
Forum: The Ladies' Lounge 02-01-2013, 01:42 PM
Replies: 211
Views: 6,800
Posted By Bottled Up
Re: What is it with some of the men here?

Oh yes Coffee Amore, Jaquen is so credible...

"Alpha men", as they're described in the various books, wouldn't likely be on TAM, spending countless hours trying to hock the alpha male perspective....
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