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Forum: Coping with Infidelity Yesterday, 08:57 PM
Replies: 2,070
Views: 133,027
Posted By canttrustu
Re: I am back and it gets worse

hang in there Thor. still checkin in on ya even if Im not saying much. Im still pulling for you.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 06-16-2013, 03:51 PM
Replies: 8,797
Views: 250,089
Posted By canttrustu
Re: Reconciliation...

TT is the absolute worst! Equal to, at very least, the original betrayal itself imo.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 06-15-2013, 10:31 PM
Replies: 8,797
Views: 250,089
Posted By canttrustu
Re: Reconciliation...

Ok DG I just cant walk away without doing all I can to help you. So Im gonna risk really upsetting you by telling you my story of the way my H was after dday and while he was still working with OW-...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 06-15-2013, 08:38 PM
Replies: 8,797
Views: 250,089
Posted By canttrustu
Re: Reconciliation...

This. Sorry DG but really its come down to the job or the marriage. It is as simple as that at this point and You know I dont say that lightly- Ive been where you are.

((((hug))))) Thinking and...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 06-14-2013, 01:25 PM
Replies: 8,797
Views: 250,089
Posted By canttrustu
Re: Reconciliation...

I know and I respect DGs position but I felt remise in not at least brushing on it. Its a hard choice and my H went w/o work for 6 mos but I couldnt take another day. I just couldnt. I was at the end...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 06-14-2013, 01:12 PM
Replies: 8,797
Views: 250,089
Posted By canttrustu
Re: Reconciliation...

DG,

I havent posted on TAM in a while but you break my heart with your pain. I can feel it bc I have been where you are. I have no 'advice' only to offer a hug.

((((((CTU hug)))))) I truly hope...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 06-03-2013, 05:51 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 1,950
Posted By canttrustu
Re: 'Just' an EA!

Ha. Yeah my H's stupid friend said that. If it ever happens to him he wont say it again, I guarantee it.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 06-01-2013, 04:58 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 583
Posted By canttrustu
Re: emotional affair? Apparently not to a husband who thinks it is only Black or Whit

The things he is saying to you - "Im not talking about this, you wont believe me anyway" and "are you bipolar" and the "crazy wife" is CLASSIC gaslighting. These are very typical things for a person...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 06-01-2013, 04:11 PM
Replies: 59
Views: 2,501
Posted By canttrustu
Re: When you think about DDay is there anything that stands out in your mind?

The very FIRST thing I did when I knew- at that moment when the proof was staring back at me? You know that moment? I puked.Right there on the spot, Ive never been so viscerally ill in my life.
...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-10-2013, 10:01 AM
Replies: 70
Views: 3,520
Posted By canttrustu
Re: disclosure email; reviews please, need pointers

you cant control what she does Qball. You only control you- be the best YOU there is. Take care of those kids, take care of yourself. Your WS will regret her choices sooner or later. It just may be...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-10-2013, 09:57 AM
Replies: 96
Views: 4,508
Posted By canttrustu
Re: A year after the EA-looking back at the early signs I(you) missed?

Tough way to learn this very important lesson isnt it?
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-08-2013, 07:26 AM
Replies: 70
Views: 3,520
Posted By canttrustu
Re: disclosure email; reviews please, need pointers

Good on you Qball for not being anyones doormat. Keep us up to date.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-07-2013, 06:38 AM
Replies: 70
Views: 3,520
Posted By canttrustu
Re: disclosure email; reviews please, need pointers

Peace.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-06-2013, 07:34 PM
Replies: 70
Views: 3,520
Posted By canttrustu
Re: disclosure email; reviews please, need pointers

Op,

Ultimately this is your decision. You came here for advice and you've received it.I gave my opinion, as have others. Best of luck to you. Im out.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-06-2013, 03:52 PM
Replies: 70
Views: 3,520
Posted By canttrustu
Re: disclosure email; reviews please, need pointers

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So my attorney was wrong- he knows nothing about the way a judge might view this. Is that what your saying? And "any judge" would also be aware that no one will stand by idle and watch some...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-06-2013, 03:11 PM
Replies: 70
Views: 3,520
Posted By canttrustu
Re: disclosure email; reviews please, need pointers

Well I am no expert, but I am experienced with exposure and waywards. I will say that having him 'outed' shocked him out of fantasyland faster than anything else.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-06-2013, 03:04 PM
Replies: 70
Views: 3,520
Posted By canttrustu
Re: disclosure email; reviews please, need pointers

How is it that an exposure letter to her employer would cause HIM to lose his job?

And I too live in a no fault state. One where the attorney I spoke to during my H's affair RECOMMENDED that I...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 05-03-2013, 03:22 PM
Replies: 230
Views: 12,132
Posted By canttrustu
Re: iPhone text recovery

Im crossing my fingers for you LD. You really do deserve to be happy.
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 04-29-2013, 01:51 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 617
Posted By canttrustu
Re: EA ...for the third time

All of the drama he just displayed is typical for a person caught in the middle of an affair. His response is very very common and called gaslighting.

When I called my H on his EA initially-He did...
Forum: The Social Spot 04-29-2013, 01:21 PM
Replies: 764
Views: 10,197
Posted By canttrustu
Re: Who From Tam

Now you know he'd say "f'ckin book em dano"....:rofl:
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 04-26-2013, 12:37 PM
Replies: 470
Views: 15,819
Posted By canttrustu
Re: Where is the line in emotional affairs?

Truth truly is stranger than fiction.....! THROW.HIM. OUT. Is absolutely right. What a stunaud!
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 04-25-2013, 11:24 AM
Replies: 230
Views: 12,132
Posted By canttrustu
Re: iPhone text recovery

I do care! We all do. You need your strength. I hope we can give you just a little.:)
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 04-24-2013, 05:46 PM
Replies: 230
Views: 12,132
Posted By canttrustu
Re: iPhone text recovery

Just checkin in LD. You doin ok all things considered?
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 04-23-2013, 07:39 PM
Replies: 230
Views: 12,132
Posted By canttrustu
Re: iPhone text recovery

Hang in there. Hope the counselor helps. Is it IC or MC?
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 04-22-2013, 09:59 AM
Replies: 230
Views: 12,132
Posted By canttrustu
Re: iPhone text recovery

Pls LD, if you do NOTHING else, do not take the blame for his head games. Everyone has their own issues. Everyone. NONE of what you wrote is an excuse for what he is doing to you and his children.
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