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Forum: Experiences in Counseling 04-04-2012, 10:58 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 2,273
Posted By UCanTalk
Re: Years of counseling...

the only people that benefit from divorce are scumbag lawyers. Have a read of Brad Blanton's works on Radical Honsesty to see his take on lawyers.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-12-2012, 03:00 AM
Replies: 1,647
Views: 124,624
Posted By UCanTalk
Re: Pretty Much Have Lost It

DG

Whats changed in your marriage apart from your wife having now had sex with you after a long barren period? The reasons as to why she shut down initially have yet to be explored. Chances are...
Forum: Relationships and Spirituality 03-11-2012, 04:16 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 3,650
Posted By UCanTalk
Yes my father who was also in Auswicz has no time...

Yes my father who was also in Auswicz has no time for me training as a therapist.
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Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-09-2012, 11:58 PM
Replies: 1,647
Views: 124,624
Posted By UCanTalk
Re: Pretty Much Have Lost It

DG - im perplexed by this thread. Your marriage mirrors mine but its more extreme. For 25 years our frequency was around once every 2-3 weeks and a few dry periods of a much longer, once being 6...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 03-05-2012, 07:40 AM
Replies: 112
Views: 7,882
Posted By UCanTalk
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Yes totally agree
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Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-05-2012, 05:24 AM
Replies: 94
Views: 8,597
Posted By UCanTalk
Re: Wife moved out, had affair with my friend, I want to reconcile

Too many men have been emasculated my domineering mothers. I know because I had one.
Forum: Sex in Marriage 03-04-2012, 05:00 AM
Replies: 112
Views: 7,882
Posted By UCanTalk
I read that book a few weeks back. It gave me a...

I read that book a few weeks back. It gave me a lot of insight into how i use sex, im the dependent and increasingly less entitled type with a bit of erotic and sensual thrown in for good measure...
Forum: Sex in Marriage 03-04-2012, 04:59 AM
Replies: 112
Views: 7,882
Posted By UCanTalk
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Forum: General Relationship Discussion 03-04-2012, 04:54 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,762
Posted By UCanTalk
That would be infinity then? Sounds uba expensive...

That would be infinity then? Sounds uba expensive
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Forum: General Relationship Discussion 03-03-2012, 01:00 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,762
Posted By UCanTalk
Re: Whats your Cost per Insertion (CPI)?

Depends on how much his lady is costing him per year and how many times he gets it. Both numbers affect the CPI.

It does sound like a very high figure though, you could buy a car for that.
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 03-03-2012, 10:52 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,762
Posted By UCanTalk
Re: Whats your Cost per Insertion (CPI)?

Thanks Seeking Sanity. I had separated out the fixed costs!

It was very much tongue in cheek (perhaps not a few years ago) The added benefits are significant!
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 03-03-2012, 10:36 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 949
Posted By UCanTalk
Re: Is it better to write a letter or call to end it

I wouldn't waste your energy with either. If they are trying to interfere with your relationship I suspect whatever mode you use to communicate they are incapable of listening.

Remember you do...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 03-03-2012, 10:15 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,762
Posted By UCanTalk
Whats your Cost per Insertion (CPI)?

I came across this TLA when in Kenya. The ex pat wives used the CPI ratio to see how much they could extract from their hubbies. For them, the higher the rate the better, for the hubbie, he wants a...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-03-2012, 10:02 AM
Replies: 1,647
Views: 124,624
Posted By UCanTalk
Re: Pretty Much Have Lost It

Did they live together before they married?

My relationship issues started when we moved in together. I felt I had "captured" her (ouch that sounds awful) and stopped putting on an act of Mr...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-03-2012, 09:24 AM
Replies: 1,647
Views: 124,624
Posted By UCanTalk
Re: Pretty Much Have Lost It

We've only heard DG's perspective so who knows that she has/is thinking/feeling?

DG how was the relationship before you were married? when did things change if they ever did or was she like this...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-02-2012, 03:35 PM
Replies: 1,647
Views: 124,624
Posted By UCanTalk
Re: Pretty Much Have Lost It

LOL

Depends how much time and money you have. I had many life changing lessons from my limerence and still do, the biggest being a much needed spiritual awakening. I'm also far more empathetic to...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-02-2012, 03:08 PM
Replies: 1,647
Views: 124,624
Posted By UCanTalk
Re: Pretty Much Have Lost It

DG -Ive read this post from the beginning and can see some parallels in my own situation but i have to admit your story is more extreme in the lack of sex department. I relate my story because it...
Forum: Experiences in Counseling 03-02-2012, 12:57 AM
Replies: 28
Views: 6,747
Posted By UCanTalk
Totally agree. Don't forget the role of therapist...

Totally agree. Don't forget the role of therapist in reparenting the client. Many of us had poor role models in our parents but we can be reprinted, just like a computer hard drive. This is slow...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 03-01-2012, 02:14 AM
Replies: 94
Views: 8,597
Posted By UCanTalk
Re: Wife moved out, had affair with my friend, I want to reconcile

He is doing this because he is co-dependent. Its not a quick fix.
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-29-2012, 01:47 AM
Replies: 146
Views: 10,680
Posted By UCanTalk
Re: I'm Ready To Own What I've Done

I can see the temptation to cover up, lie and live with the guilt but how can that not get in the way of building an honest, respectful and strong relationship?

Last week a business colleague...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-28-2012, 06:49 AM
Replies: 146
Views: 10,680
Posted By UCanTalk
Good luck Calvin. From what I've seen if there is...

Good luck Calvin. From what I've seen if there is a will on both sides many marriages can become much stronger after such an event. Only conclusion I have come to is long term relationships are hard...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-28-2012, 01:59 AM
Replies: 95
Views: 4,836
Posted By UCanTalk
Re: What evil, evil thing did you do that drove them to cheat?

Me: I was codependent, insecure, narcissistic, manipulative and passive aggressive.
My wife just internalised everything and built up resentment, she was taught to "put up and shut up"
We colluded...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-28-2012, 12:31 AM
Replies: 146
Views: 10,680
Posted By UCanTalk
Re: I'm Ready To Own What I've Done

CantSitStill, I really admire your courage for posting on this forum. From reading the responses there are many people here that are understandably angry from being betrayed. That said there are...
Forum: Experiences in Counseling 02-15-2012, 02:25 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 6,747
Posted By UCanTalk
Re: Did marriage counseling help your relationship or make it worse?

If you are both committed and find a good one it can. That said im realsing marriage is always going to have its ups and downs.

I'm also in IC and so impressed with the process am training to Be...
Forum: Coping with Infidelity 02-13-2012, 12:57 PM
Replies: 68
Views: 3,940
Posted By UCanTalk
Re: Wayward spouses, how do triggers effect you?

Couldn't help but chip in here. My insecurities around my wife having been unfaithful took me into therapy a few years back. I occassionally still grapple with these emotions and yet too date there ...
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