Gunther

Well i have been seeing this girl for about 2years and she broke it off about 4 months ago. Cause i always wanted her around me. I got laid off and i wasnt in the best moods at all. I guess it made me happy i dont know and after a while we started fighting alot mostly because of me and i see that.
But for some reason me and her have been talking the last week or 2 alot we were getting along good real good be the last few days i have been calling her alot to go out and stuff and we did. but out of the blue she is pushing me away again like the first time. Now its going really bad. I now i love her alot she say she loves me all the time. But now she says like a friend. Im kind of cool with that but Im starting to think she is play a game with me or just trying to keep me around to help her out. When we did start talking again she need help with some of her bills. She knows Ill do anything for her. So i helped her out and thats fine with me i like helping people out when i can.
On a diff note when had this nice romantic night planed out for the two of us.But now she doesnt want that or anything like that anymore i cause thats fine with me. I just want to know what do i do she tells me she wants me in her life then she changes her mind on the drop of a dime. Im lost at what to do I tried giving her everything she wanted and that worked for awhile. But i do love her so much and i know thats not enough but what i want to know is why she comes back and i drop everything and then wants nothing to do with me. I dont want to loss her but its looking like i will im just scared she will come back in mey life again and ill drop everything and jump for her again and have to go through this stuff again. So any help you can give me would be great!!!!!! And valentines is coming up should i get her something or not i want to but i dont know