Re: Living with a narcissist
How old are you kids? Sorry you are here and you live with a N. i did not married N but I dated one, it was a short date since after shortly, I discovered his NPD. He is a 100/100 N. I was not sure what was wrong with him but after months, i had no doubt. I then start to plan how to get away from him. It was a toxic relationship, it affected my life, health, and work. I was drained. I understand that you think you want to help you kids, but if i was you, I would not chose to expose my kids to a N father. Since N do not love, he always think that you and to Kids are there to please him. I am sure he will do what is possible to keep you around, or to threaten you if he knows you are leaving, since N are manipulative and good with lies. the long time you stay with a N , the more therapies and medication you take when he does not care since he does not even accept that he has a problem. Go to N support group and read book to help you. Good luck.