Re: Are some people incapable of introspection?
People who appear to lack introspection are just playing crazy.... expecting you to fill in the blanks.
Behavior like that alienates me and makes me want to plan an exit strategy. With someone you're just dating, an exit strategy is easy. With someone you are married to, I can understand it takes more effort, planning an introspection. but after dealing with people who want to play crazy instead of acting informed and responsible, I just can't be bothered.
In fact, one way to hasten the exit is to play as dumb as they play. that's when they realise that the game is up......