Re: Couple Retreat Therapy
I don't think I would lie to your H about the retreat because once he finds out, he could be really angry and not willing to open up at all! The fact that he isn't willing to go on his own, is why I say this. Have you told him that you NEED him to talk to you and that you would like for the two of you see a counselor. Have you told him how much you are hurting becauase you aren't talking. Maybe suggest the retreat before seeing a counselor and see if things don't change. Or if he still refuses to go, go see a counselor by yourself.