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post #46 of 50 (permalink) Old 08-09-2014, 12:30 PM
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I would agree with that to a certain extent, but then my question becomes just as jld is asking, who exactly would fall for this stuff? I mean, her literature pretty clearly spells out the nature of the system, and it ain't subtle. She's not *just* advocating the use of sex figuratively to control a man. She means it literally, using the heat of the moment to make a man agree to anything. That's the linchpin of her entire framework.

And that seems to me a pretty transparent system. Like you said, John, eventually a man would catch on. So who are all these men whose wives she claims to have coached to this lifestyle?

Idk, after thinking about it, I think I'm going to agree with jld and say these men may already be emotionally unhealthy. I would think men who've been subject to long patterns of abuse might be able to fall for this stuff. Men with a strong leaning toward toxic co-dependency and enabling/being enabled. Idk.

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Who do you think would be vulnerable to her methods, Blossom?
Anyone who cannot spot covert exploitive manipulation

Yes, and I agree on those inclined to toxic codependency who are yet to emerge from the fog.

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Lawd...not another thread of the OP with her pathetic, weakling, unemployed capon of a husband trying to push her lame book.

OP this stuff works for you and women who need to dominate others to feel whole in their own skin. It wouldn't work for women who don't need to exploit others to feel capable in life.

Not everyone is going to tolerate this type of husband just so they can stay married. A lot of successful career women like me need equal partners.

If my partner wasn't as financially, intellectually, and sexually capable as I was...there's no way I'd stay married. The last thing I'd want is someone to control or blackmail sexually. I wouldn't even want to touch him. I wouldn't consider him a real man. And vice versa for him.

Honestly, do whatever works for you but to suggest its the recipe for successful for anyone but those with your mentality is nonsense.

Frankly the very idea of engaging in this type of manipulation with another human being that I'm supposed to be in a long-term relationship with sickens me. I won't bother to click on your website. The idea that someone is peddling the idea of using and exploiting someone just goes to further illustrate their lack of ethics and character.

Why don't you stop creating the same thread already? If your theories were so great, your book would sell well without the trickery.
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Lawd...not another thread of the OP with her pathetic, weakling, unemployed capon of a husband trying to push her lame book.

OP this stuff works for you and women who need to dominate others to feel whole in their own skin. It wouldn't work for women who don't need to exploit others to feel capable in life.

Not everyone is going to tolerate this type of husband just so they can stay married. A lot of successful career women like me need equal partners.

If my partner wasn't as financially, intellectually, and sexually capable as I was...there's no way I'd stay married. The last thing I'd want is someone to control or blackmail sexually. I wouldn't even want to touch him. I wouldn't consider him a real man. And vice versa for him.

Honestly, do whatever works for you but to suggest its the recipe for successful for anyone but those with your mentality is nonsense.

Frankly the very idea of engaging in this type of manipulation with another human being that I'm supposed to be in a long-term relationship with sickens me. I won't bother to click on your website. The idea that someone is peddling the idea of using and exploiting someone just goes to further illustrate their lack of ethics and character.

Why don't you stop creating the same thread already? If your theories were so great, your book would sell well without the trickery.

Whooo, AMEN SISTA, we've got some preachin' goin' on up in here. Direct, well spoken and applause from me to you



Here is a book worth sharing... The Betrayal Bond .. breaking free from exploitive relationships by Patrick Carnes

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Lawd...not another thread of the OP with her pathetic, weakling, unemployed capon of a husband trying to push her lame book.

OP this stuff works for you and women who need to dominate others to feel whole in their own skin. It wouldn't work for women who don't need to exploit others to feel capable in life.

Not everyone is going to tolerate this type of husband just so they can stay married. A lot of successful career women like me need equal partners.

If my partner wasn't as financially, intellectually, and sexually capable as I was...there's no way I'd stay married. The last thing I'd want is someone to control or blackmail sexually. I wouldn't even want to touch him. I wouldn't consider him a real man. And vice versa for him.

Honestly, do whatever works for you but to suggest its the recipe for successful for anyone but those with your mentality is nonsense.

Frankly the very idea of engaging in this type of manipulation with another human being that I'm supposed to be in a long-term relationship with sickens me. I won't bother to click on your website. The idea that someone is peddling the idea of using and exploiting someone just goes to further illustrate their lack of ethics and character.

Why don't you stop creating the same thread already? If your theories were so great, your book would sell well without the trickery.
I see a sense of entitlement here.........I like what she has to say as I have seen it........I am as strong as any man here so I will always have value no matter what I do or don't do...........
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