Join Date: Apr 2011
Location: Southern Louisiana
Re: Divorce Busting
I would agree with that to a certain extent, but then my question becomes just as jld is asking, who exactly would fall for this stuff? I mean, her literature pretty clearly spells out the nature of the system, and it ain't subtle. She's not *just* advocating the use of sex figuratively to control a man. She means it literally, using the heat of the moment to make a man agree to anything. That's the linchpin of her entire framework.
And that seems to me a pretty transparent system. Like you said, John, eventually a man would catch on. So who are all these men whose wives she claims to have coached to this lifestyle?
Idk, after thinking about it, I think I'm going to agree with jld and say these men may already be emotionally unhealthy. I would think men who've been subject to long patterns of abuse might be able to fall for this stuff. Men with a strong leaning toward toxic co-dependency and enabling/being enabled. Idk.