Marriage Builders & Dr. Willard Harley?

NJEH · 02-21-2011, 06:04 PM

I've seen people mention this, in other forums. I went on it and was impressed. He covers a lot of things I have been wondering about ie. compatibility etc. It almost seems to good to be true? Has anyone read his books, or done his program?

Powerbane · 02-21-2011, 07:34 PM

I've read His Needs,Her Needs and was impressed as well.

Wife won't take the quizzes but that didn't stop me.

I actually used this site, marriagebuilders and Affaircare.

The point with all is to listen, learn and put it into action.

I'm still learning.
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NJEH · 02-22-2011, 10:14 AM

Thank you. H and I are starting counselling, but I just think we need something more. Maybe this is it?

NJEH · 02-26-2011, 11:37 PM

I ended up buying (for my e-reader) His Needs Her Needs. I read it like it was a bestselling novel. I couldn't put it down. I had an idea what I felt was missing from our marriage, at least for me, and this put it into words perfectly. I want to buy H a copy. We start MC this week, so I will check with the C first. He just keeps saying "something is missing". He's not a fan of reading, but this might help him to clarify this feeling. I too love the MB site. Even if you don't agree with it 100% ( I do about 95%) it at least gets couples talking about their needs.

marksaysay · 04-27-2011, 09:45 PM

I am also sold on the concepts found in "His Needs, Her Needs". I read it in 3 days because it was so enlightening and practical. I would recommend this book to anyone in a committed relationship. I've spent some time on marriagebuilders.com as well and have found it extremely helpful. I agree with just about everything he says other than the fact that he doesn't believe unconditional love is possible. But that is the only thing I've found that I don't agree with. Everything else is, in my opinion, right on point.