Re: one month into the marriage
Let me get this right. You did not want to involve his parents, somewhat understandable, and then move in to his parent's house following the wedding. You two created a very imposing task. First obvious question, even if there is some financial sacrifice, get your own place. It's a whole lot easier to get along with his parents if you see them on Sundays, make a nice dinner they like, are on your best behavior and smile, than if you live at their house, he puts some dirty dishes in the sink, you clean up, her mother puts some in you clear up, her father puts them in and you clean up he then puts a few as does his mother who comments within sight, too bad the house is dirty. And you cannot start creating rules, you live in their house. Now you are frustrated and not in the mood, which makes your husband more frustrated. GET OUT AND FIND SOMETHING ON YOUR OWN, EVEN IF ITS' SMALL AND FAR AWAY.