Re: mending a marriage without going to counseling
We have never had big problems, and have always talked everything out. My husband is open to hearing anything, in any way, from me, so that really clears away a lot of communication hurdles.
Do you want to explain some of your issues, so we can better understand what you would like to improve?
One of the deepest feminine pleasures is when a man stands full, present, and unreactive in the midst of his woman's emotional storms. When he stays present with her, and loves her through the layers of wildness and closure, then she feels his trustability, and she can relax. -- David Deida, The Way of the Superior Man