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post #1 of 14 (permalink) Old 05-09-2016, 08:27 AM Thread Starter
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Re: I need help unwanted sexual fantasies

This is called a hotwife fetish and it almost never ends in a happy story.

You need some counselling. It's the same as wanting a needle or a drink - the human brain is an incredible drug.

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Google someone and research on most qualified therapists in your area

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You want to find a sex therapist to help you navigate why you have this desire and work through that. I think you can over come it.
Here's a site to find some one near you

https://www.aasect.org/
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Or you need to give her an amicable divorce and find a partner willing and able to help you humiliate yourself. Your need to be humiliated is deep seated and probably due in part to your upbringing.
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Lay off the porno watching perhaps?

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Re: I need help unwanted sexual fantasies

This is a phase and it will pass. Sometimes people get obsessed about a sexual fantasy that they can't stop thinking about. Stop watching porn. And don't even think about asking wife to do another 3 some. Get a new hobby or somthing to occupy your mind until this phase passes
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Re: I need help unwanted sexual fantasies

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Look it's talking to me!

(Probably a bot triggered by the word "spam".

Let's see what it says next!

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I received 3 pms from the spammer I can't be sure if it's a bot or a real person typing, they can be very convincing.

Maybe someone can pm the spammer and see what sort of response they get.
I deleted your post in which you quoted the spammer. Please do not quote spam posts... just report them and let the mods take care of them.


There is a tool available to mods that lets us select one post by a spammer and delete all of their posts and ban them in one action. But this misses any posts in which the spam post is quoted.


When you quote spam posts you (meaning anyone who quotes them) is helping the spammer sell their product/site. Mods often don't have the time to read through entire threads to find the quoted posts. So the quoted posts often remain.. with the spam/rip-off link alive and well.

so.. do not quote spam posts and report them.
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I deleted your post in which you quoted the spammer. Please do not quote spam posts... just report them and let the mods take care of them.

When you quote spam posts you (meaning anyone who quotes them) is helping the spammer sell their product/site. Mods often don't have the time to read through entire threads to find the quoted posts. So the quoted posts often remain.. with the spam/rip-off link alive and well.

so.. do not quote spam posts and report them.
Ok sorry I deleted a second post I made in regard to the spambot on this thread as well as a thread I started about the spambot.

To be clear I specifically did not quote any part of the spambots post that included a link and I clearly stated that it was spam and NOT to click on any links offered by the spammer.

Thought this might be a good opportunity to educate the nice folks of TAM about a spammer because this one was unique- it was an automated spambot programed to RESPOND publically to posts that quoted it and as I also stated in that separate thread I started, I exchanged a half dozen PMs with it (which I posted in a screenshot) which were somewhat convincing until it became obvious that the spambot wasn't actually processing what I was typing it was just posting general statements that could apply to anyone.
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Re: I need help unwanted sexual fantasies

I wish my SO forced me to have sex with multiple women simultaneously.

I'd take one for the team.

“When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.” - Maya Angelou
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You didn't force her to do anything she didn't want to do. Keep that mind.

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