11-15-2011, 10:15 PM
Join Date: Feb 2011
| | Re: Is it her Father or is it me?
Help her contact her father, and do whatever it takes to make sure they speak regularly. Of course it might not go that smooth, the father might not be a great guy, and if he's not, support her. But if they contact and stay in touch, there's the source of the problem right there. I agree that couple therapy is another option. If you're spending at least 2 hrs a night with her and she's still upset, there's not too much else you can do, dont be mean, but if you need time for yourself you have to take it. Also, idk if you'd want to feed a problem like that. Iow, if you give her what she wants( which is a void), it may get worse. Aknowledge her, be nice, and then do what you were doing. As long as you're already playing your part(spending time with her), AND being understanding, you really are doing everything you can.