Join Date: Feb 2014
Location: Away and beyond in a hot place
Re: My wife is having an affair and now she filed for divorce
Johndoe, sorry you are here but bad behaviour and mistreatment of others has condequences. It looks like you did all you could with the counsellors, etc but be careful of taking the blame for her infidelity, that is all on her.
A spouse may treat another badly but that does not justify an affair.
you sound confused, one minute you want her the next you want a divorce.
Do not make any decisions now when emotions are running high
You must confront your wife with the evidence
Tell all family, friends, etc what has been happening
Do the 180 on her for your own sake to regain emotional stability
speak with your lawyer of your options, financing, etc
start doing things for yourself, exercise, etc
get some counselling for yourself. It is not possible to have MC without the couple being complete. You have many issues resolve those first.
Work on becoming the man who you should be, the best father, etc
You may have lost your wife, but you must move forward and repair yourself first before you can ever be part of any relationship