lovemygirls

Well, I'm here.

I never thought it would come to this. I've been married 4 years and been with her for 7.

I have a beautiful, healthy 16 month old daughter. I miss her. I miss my wife.

My wife has been gone a week. She said she hated me. She has retracted that, but who says that!?

It comes down to money. We had a struggle last year with finances. We came up with a plan to move and I would take a job with a firm. I've been there a couple months and am having trouble with the bills. So she's gone.

I work 12-14 hours a day and am home by 4. So it doesn't give much time with my family. It's a tough catch 22. But I told her give it a couple more months and come spring, I'll be home earlier.

When I do come home I help with all the cooking, cleaning etc., and I always have.

She didn't call all week. Said she was too busy. But I did email her when she left to take her time and regroup and don't worry about contacting me. Well, she took that to heart! That was my error. I gave her space and then did not honor that.

I just miss her and my daughter and would love nothing more than to have them back.

Thanks for listening. I feel a bit better.

lovemygirls

I just realized where I posted this. I am so out of it.

Can we please get this moved over to "Going Through Divorce or Separation"

Thanks