08-08-2009, 05:09 AM
Join Date: Jul 2008
| | Re: Which marriage saving program
Originally Posted by lonelyandsad
My question is........Isn't this just letting him have his cake and eat it too? Keep showing how much I love him (with no pressure on his part to return anything).
that is a hard question. im at a point in my life (after two humble years of marriage...lol) that i think its more important to protect ones heart. so i dont think its a good idea to throw yourself out there expecting nothing in return. there needs to be some balance there.
do you know what caused him to fall out of love?
"I'm a lover of what is, not because I'm a spiritual person, but because it hurts when I argue with reality."
- Bryon Katie