Join Date: May 2013
Location: The First State
Re: Any Suggestions? Newly Wed lost and confused
It appears that even if he didn't cheat on you with this other woman, he's not willing to show you the respect you deserve. Your children maintain a relationship with their father which you, rightly, facilitate. Good for you! You love your children more than you dislike your ex. But your current husband can't accept that. So he uses an innocent visit as an excuse to hurt you. And, what's more - to go on hurting you.
So, while two wrongs never make a right, three rights make a u-turn. You did nothing wrong, but you might want to consider making those three rights and getting out of there. He doesn't sound mature enough or kind enough for you.
You're in my prayers.