Hey everyone, I just wanted to put my input on the Mort Fertel class. I purchased the class (Lone Ranger) and I listened to most of the CD's and have been working on the workbook and reading the book. As a typical man that DID NOT want to change for years my wife, but God got ahold of me and led me to Morts site. I investigating many of "counselors" you name it I looked at them. Well while I was going throught the CD's as a newbie trying to change and get out of the "roomate" relationship with my wife, on Feb 13th she asked me for a divorce. I can tell you that this floored me and my stomach and heart was RIPPED OUT. But I stayed true, if I can say ONE thing. Words or CRAP, it is actions. If your spouse wants you out which my did and I was not leaving, I at first was up her butt like a gnat and all that did was irritate her, I kept asking her to get something to eat, etc you know like all guys do, trying to talki about our marriage, our issues. What was I doing???? PUSHING HER even further away! She told me she HATED ME. The biggest thing I was doing wrong was not listening to Mort, I am not going to go into his whole program, but let me just say that 1 month later, she is seeing the change, it is only because of Mort, no I did alot of praying and sought gods face. YOU HAVE to work the program deligently and when I figured that out it helped and that is no lie. Get the divorce thoughts, the other man thoughts, the whatever thoughts OUT OF YOUR HEAD and make your spouse PRIORITY #1 PERIOD. I own my own business and have for 9 years,is what I fell in love with and I had it as priority #1. Not any more!!!!! Do it, I am sorry to say this, but you people that worry more about $400----are the same ones that may do something that is to good to be true. Your heart has to be in the right place and just because something is not working for one person doesn't mean it will not work for you. If you REALLY want to put the time and effort into your relationship AND I MEAN ALOT, then you can repair it. If you have children, remember when they were born how it turned your life upside down and they were your main focus, not out of feeling sorry for yourself, etc and your every moment was spent with them. Well that is what Mort has done for me again. I love my wife and she is #1 priority.
Now are we back to where we were not yet, it is going to take time, time that I am willing to invest for as long as it takes. If this is not how you feel----well then I am sorry, NOTHING is gonna help you, you need to examine yourself first and seek God's face.
Thank you and God Bless and Good luck, let me know if you have any questions.