Re: Married 2 years and hardly ever have sex. Help!
That is great advice. I have tried a lot of different things to get him to want to. kissing, dressing up, kissing all over him, talking, asking him what has changed. He always says nothing has changed he still wants me. When i try he always says I am tired. Then three months later he will get ready and its great. Getting there is the problem not after. When the kids are gone for a while or even a night all he does is sleep. even right now he is asleep. We have never slept together in the same bed that is. While he was single he slept on the couch and I can not get him off that couch. I have tried getting angry, being sweet about it, joke about it, and even cry about it. I am a psychology major and can not seem to figure him out. He just says that I am crazy. When i talk to him he changes for about a week then it is right back to the same way. I am beginning to think that he just married me for just so that he is not alone. When we dated everything was great. Now I hate it. We never talk, never have sex and never go anywhere together. I feel like we are just roommates. He pays the bills and I do the cooking. I have told him that too about the roommates thing and he says that I am crazy for thinking that. I have even talked to him about divorce and he says that will never happen your crazy. I sit here in this house and feel so alone. My other marriage we were best friends talked about everything and did everything together. I know I know I should not compare them but that is all I can go by. I do have to say I try not to do that seeing that it was such a great relationship that me and my ex had but then again after 15 years he did leave me for another woman so I keep thinking maybe that is why my life with this H should be like this. Gosh! what to do?