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Old 02-07-2010, 02:52 PM   #31 (permalink)
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No this girl HATES it, no guy would ever stand a chance.
i love a challenge!!!
And yes.. i meant to say the same thign over and if you persist ...so will I.!!
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No this girl HATES it, no guy would ever stand a chance.
no "guy" still leaves some options open
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i love a challenge!!!
Vino not even you would come close to winning that challenge, she would rather die than let a guy do that to her, she absolutely HATES it.

Don't get it myself as even if you get bad head its still kinda good, if that makes sense?
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no "guy" still leaves some options open
Or woman for that matter.
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Vino not even you would come close to winning that challenge, she would rather die than let a guy do that to her, she absolutely HATES it.

Don't get it myself as even if you get bad head its still kinda good, if that makes sense?
There MUST be something behind that.
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There MUST be something behind that.
You're telling me? I know I have tried to talk to her about it, but she says she just doesn't like it.

There is more to it than that I think possibly insecurites about how she may look/taste down there maybe? I think that's what holds a lot of women back.
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You're telling me? I know I have tried to talk to her about it, but she says she just doesn't like it.

There is more to it than that I think possibly insecurites about how she may look/taste down there maybe? I think that's what holds a lot of women back.
must be.. thats one of the best forms of play on earth.... and service to your partner....and submission and ...well you probably get it, literally and figuratively speaking
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must be.. thats one of the best forms of play on earth....
Oh definately, but she will not go there. full stop. I keep telling her "girl you're missing out, relax" and go grab H, will she? Nope!
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Oh definately, but she will not go there. full stop. I keep telling her "girl you're missing out, relax" and go grab H, will she? Nope!

OUCH..poor guy.
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My two cents...it's a very, very sensitive area. Just because it's too much for her doesn't mean anything bad. Again, I'll harp by mentioning this book..."She Comes First" by Ian Kerner. So glad my husband read this book!!!
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Plain and simple: there is an emotional connection lack somewhere.

Thats how I feel with my H, even tho I looooove oral. It just feels "icky" for lack of a better word. Oral sex is so personal, when emotional connection is lacking or damaged, a woman will not feel like it. IMHO.
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Old 02-08-2010, 01:16 AM   #42 (permalink)
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Personally, this is the best thing I love and crave for. However, I noticed my husband does not give me enough of it. I give him heads, though.

I know some friends who are not comfortable with the idea.
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It might not be the case, but it could also be on your side. I used to hate blowjobs. Turns out I didn't hate blowjobs, I just hated my wife's technique. After I discussed it with her several times over the years she somehow never got it right.

After we split up (not because of the bad blowjobs, mind you) I received fantastic oral from a few girls that made me realize blowjobs weren't so bad after all.
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I enjoy oral, but it is not a big deal. My husband does not do it, he did not have much experience in giving orally and when we were dating, he only did it once. I never made a big deal about it, so it just doesn't happen.
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My guess is if it felt good the way you were doing it, she would like it. It is all about technique and sadly, some men do not know what to do with the clit even if it had an instruction manual and a LED light attached to it.
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