You're telling me? I know I have tried to talk to her about it, but she says she just doesn't like it.
There is more to it than that I think possibly insecurites about how she may look/taste down there maybe? I think that's what holds a lot of women back.
You're telling me? I know I have tried to talk to her about it, but she says she just doesn't like it.
There is more to it than that I think possibly insecurites about how she may look/taste down there maybe? I think that's what holds a lot of women back.
must be.. thats one of the best forms of play on earth.... and service to your partner....and submission and ...well you probably get it, literally and figuratively speaking
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My two cents...it's a very, very sensitive area. Just because it's too much for her doesn't mean anything bad. Again, I'll harp by mentioning this book..."She Comes First" by Ian Kerner. So glad my husband read this book!!!
Plain and simple: there is an emotional connection lack somewhere.
Thats how I feel with my H, even tho I looooove oral. It just feels "icky" for lack of a better word. Oral sex is so personal, when emotional connection is lacking or damaged, a woman will not feel like it. IMHO.
It might not be the case, but it could also be on your side. I used to hate blowjobs. Turns out I didn't hate blowjobs, I just hated my wife's technique. After I discussed it with her several times over the years she somehow never got it right.
After we split up (not because of the bad blowjobs, mind you) I received fantastic oral from a few girls that made me realize blowjobs weren't so bad after all. Posted via Mobile Device
I enjoy oral, but it is not a big deal. My husband does not do it, he did not have much experience in giving orally and when we were dating, he only did it once. I never made a big deal about it, so it just doesn't happen.
My guess is if it felt good the way you were doing it, she would like it. It is all about technique and sadly, some men do not know what to do with the clit even if it had an instruction manual and a LED light attached to it.