My wife is great in bed, our sex is great and she is not afraid of giving head. But the odd thing is she doesn't like to receive oral. A women who prefers to give than receive oral, its ironic isn't it? It just sucks (pun intended) because I love performing oral. The question is, are there anymore women out there that don't like clitoral stimulus?
on planet Earth? none documented. let the piling on begin. but i've never met a woman who doesn't like it (and i've met a few).
Wow... I certainly have been with my fair share of women, and I haven't ever come across any that didn't like it done... Im baffled on this one for sure.
Wow... I certainly have been with my fair share of women, and I haven't ever come across any that didn't like it done... Im baffled on this one for sure.
heh heh...i dont even HAVE ONE...and i want mine licked...
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My wife is great in bed, our sex is great and she is not afraid of giving head. But the odd thing is she doesn't like to receive oral. A women who prefers to give than receive oral, its ironic isn't it? It just sucks (pun intended) because I love performing oral. The question is, are there anymore women out there that don't like clitoral stimulus?
I can't imagine any woman not liking it-I mean, there are, what, maybe 50 million nerve endings there.
Mine does not like it either. It is more the thought of it for her than the feel. I have tried to talk to her about it. Drives me crazy, but I have finally come to the conclusion, it is her loss.
Would this be like a guy not wanting a BJ. I could not even fathom even one man on this earth or even who ever existed that would not like a BJ. Only thing I would think of a guy not wanting one would be some really strict religious mind bending.
I have thought of the same thing. There was a time in our marriage where my wife would not let me go down on her. I think it had more to do with general lack of intimacy in our relationship and she probably did not want to feel pressure to return the favor at the time.
Still to this day my wife has to be in the mood for me to go down on her and will turn it down several times. She always seems to really enjoy it when it happens though. Very strange.
it's not just eating her out, its basically any type of stimuli. Now people might ask how does she reach nirvana with out any clit play? Well we do a lot of fore play every time we have sex, so that helps a lot. But every time I go to touch, lick, or anything else she says "it's too much" as if its an uncomfortable tikkel... any women have that problem I don't know.
omg, personally I love it and can never get enough of it, but I do have a close friend who hates it and will not let her husband do to her, she says she just does not like it, I really, really struggle to understand this, unless he is doing something seriously wrong.
I think that maybe she does like it but just feels uncomfortable with how she may look/smell, I just fail to see how any woman would not want a warm, wet tongue on her down there!! It's just the best feeling ever.
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The couple of girls I knew who did not like it seemed to be more about embaressment than anything but I did have a girlfriend who claimed it was simply too much stimulation. I learned to never directly lick her on the clit but to just go around it and she grew to love it. Frankly, she was a lot of work but that was when I got my "skills"...
1. some women may have insecurities about their bodies and find it too intimate and embarrassing. They "think too much" and they never completely lose control in bed. It is not that they don't like the feeling of it, they just can't relax.
2. it could be that some women had bad experience in the past. not all men are good in bed. some men think they know what they are doing but they don't. some women have extremely sensitive clits.
3. maybe some women find the act disturbing - and rather prefer a more old fashioned sex. These women might prefer finger stimulation and kissing as foreplay.
We talked about it last night, she does not like it. guess its a simple as that it never has it been about her being self conscious because there are other southern parts she loves getting licked
A Women Who Doesn't Like her Clit Licked
