Re: Are there women who actually like men with small penises
Well, I edited my own post, you use inches, we use meters, messed up conversions.
It was fairly accepted by the other guys in highschool I was what you can say a notch above average.
Never felt more of a man because of it. Never less so. Felt great from time to time if someone mentioned size and me, but that was not what built my self confidence up.
Problems came when some idiots in my class spread out how I compared to the other guys, until pretty much everyone knew, and it was even exagerated. Just juvenile, irresponsible behaviour.
Well, to make it short.
-It definitely did not make me more desireable or atractive. It did get me alot of inconspicuous stares, some gropes, but that was it mostly. Infact the guy who I recall had more girlfriends in highschool, was amongst the guys with the smallest mmmrmm...and He had a very active sex life, prior to college. Afterwards we lost touch.
Women look for other features in men, for atraction, then it does not really matter that much how you are downstairs, but more what you do. A well toned balanced body, good facial features, self confidence, a touch of ****iness, well dressed, status, and social skill/circle of friends. That is what makes you atractive. Least from my experience anyhow.
-Because of reputation, my girlfriends were always reluctant to sleep with me. They said it so. Like a doctor's needle, it was always the notion that it will hurt, and will be very unpleasant, I could not get past. And trust me, I tried. Because I was considered cute, one the cool boys, and went out alot, having a girlfriend was never a problem, but there was always that wall. Even in the instances I had sex, it was hardly satisfying if you can even call it that. Even with a bit of alcohol, and with lights out, it was not possible.
Last straw was my last girlfriend who said something like, since we were not that serious(no rings exchanged and all), if She had sex with me, people think She was a **** who enjoys sex, and big ones. Pretty much.
Satisfying sexual encounters came from older divorced women, and there, it was never an issue. There was barely a mention about the size at all.
College, ditto. Best time of my life.
-An average man can get all the way in with most women, I can't say the same. There's one position only I can do it with my wife, and it rocks my world, to feel it near the base of my penis. It was always a learning process to know how, how much, how fast, to do it, with all women. They vary as much, and even more as men.
-Size, shape, they really matter, but they are not what makes you a great lover. If I had to pick, I'd say empathy, patience, endurance are most important.
-You will never find a man happy or satisfied, or even secure about his own penis. You're never alone there. I have actually wished my downsized just a bit, then it would be just right.
-A large penis is as atractive as large breasts are atractive in a woman. Small is cute and lovely, medium are just perfect, large are sexy, huge are an aberration. It's more of a curiosity issue, fascination, novelty. How you perform is what counts. Trust me on this one. If by chance sex is unsatisfying it's alot more likely it's not related to size issues, or her own configuration, than with position, foreplay, disposition, atraction, and so on. We think of sex as something purely physical and forget it starts and finishes with our own imagination and underlying feelings.
Perhaps I am a bit jaded from my own past experiences, but whenever I hear a complaint about being too small, I just mentally snap "swap me and see how you like it." Being big is just good for the imaginary porn world.
Lol, guess we are never really happy with what we got.