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Old 04-30-2011, 04:34 PM   #16 (permalink)
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I am around 7" when erect, but most men I have seen(in locker rooms and by chance) are larger than me when soft. That always led me to believe that the average length is surely longer than 5 or 6 as we are led to beleive. Does that mean most of these guys are over 7" when erect?

My x always said I fit her just fine.
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I am around 7" when erect, but most men I have seen(in locker rooms and by chance) are larger than me when soft. That always led me to believe that the average length is surely longer than 5 or 6 as we are led to beleive. Does that mean most of these guys are over 7" when erect?
I have read about this , how a man looks soft means absolutely NOTHING. You can be a monster and shrivel up into half inch length or be a 3 incher soft and only be a 6 incher in full erection.

Here is a fasinating DVD even Netflix has to rent:

Amazon.com: Private ****s: Lexington Steele, Meema Spadola, Thom Powers: Instant Video

My husband is as Average as Average can get, it is all I know, he has always been "enough", if you don't know what you are missing, maybe it is a blessing. I orgasm near 99% of the time, so what more is there to ask for.

Of coarse I have "wondered" if bigger/longer is better, I think this is natural. A little more length would allow a few more of those crazy positions you see on the pages of a Kuma sutra book.
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Old 05-01-2011, 04:04 PM   #18 (permalink)
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I've been with a very tiny man. He gave me plenty of O's. I've also been with a very large man (9 inches erect - yes I measured). He hurt and I never was able to O with him. I'm a small person.

Then I married a very average man - 5ish? And he's perfect.

Although as I typed this I now have a dirty version of Goldilocks and the 3 bears going on in my head...."this penis was too small, this penis was too large but this one was just right". LOL!!
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a little thicker than a toilet paper tube )
you tried to use one as a masturbating aide too

i never measured so i dont know my size but always felt i was just on the smaller size of normal (always been scared to know for sure i guess) but i can just hit syrums cervix when i get going good and she says its just right so i for one am very happy with what ive got plus i think ive got awsome extra skills too
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I am around 7" when erect, but most men I have seen(in locker rooms and by chance) are larger than me when soft. That always led me to believe that the average length is surely longer than 5 or 6 as we are led to beleive. Does that mean most of these guys are over 7" when erect?
i have heard that it looks smaller when you look straight down on it. 'they' say to have a more realistic look of your size is too stand back from a full length mirror and look at yourself that way and it should look larger and more what someone else sees.
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I'm in the health care field and have seen my fair share of mens' parts (and a few in my personal life!). I would definitely agree with the average being 5-6" and I think it's an awful shame that we've been socialized to believe that a 'normal' sized penis is closer to 8", which I think really just makes men feel bad about themselves and insecure. Look at all the men just in this thread who think they're on the small side at 5-6". The fact is that is a perfectly normal and respectable size.
IMO, the thing about large penises are that they are a novelty, like large breasts. They might look nice, but they probably aren't going to actually 'do' anything different for you. Unless you're talking about exceptionally small penises (which are more common than you'd think), a decent regular size is likely just fine. I've personally had everything from average to quite large, and the only time I feel a size difference per se is with girth. When my dh is very aroused and is at full attention girth-wise, that's the best. A penis longer than a woman's vagina isn't going to get all the way in, and can be a little uncomfortable on the cervix.
Don't be self-conscious boys! A guy's enthusiasm and generosity in bed far, far outweighs the size of his package.
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i never measured so i dont know my size but always felt i was just on the smaller size of normal (always been scared to know for sure i guess) but i can just hit syrums cervix when i get going good and she says its just right so i for one am very happy with what ive got plus i think ive got awsome extra skills too
*toot toot*
Not small at all, and most excellent! You do for sure have great skills.
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Although as I typed this I now have a dirty version of Goldilocks and the 3 bears going on in my head...."this penis was too small, this penis was too large but this one was just right". LOL!!
LMAO!!! That is some funny stuff, MG!
I am 7.5" erect and fairly thick. It hurts my wife in missionary position, but is fine in just about any other configuration we have been able to come up with.
The down side that I have realized with being a little large is that she can't take it all in her mouth, so blow jobs are less that perfect and they wear her jaw out.
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Old 05-02-2011, 11:31 AM   #24 (permalink)
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Well, I edited my own post, you use inches, we use meters, messed up conversions.

It was fairly accepted by the other guys in highschool I was what you can say a notch above average.

Never felt more of a man because of it. Never less so. Felt great from time to time if someone mentioned size and me, but that was not what built my self confidence up.

Problems came when some idiots in my class spread out how I compared to the other guys, until pretty much everyone knew, and it was even exagerated. Just juvenile, irresponsible behaviour.

Well, to make it short.

-It definitely did not make me more desireable or atractive. It did get me alot of inconspicuous stares, some gropes, but that was it mostly. Infact the guy who I recall had more girlfriends in highschool, was amongst the guys with the smallest mmmrmm...and He had a very active sex life, prior to college. Afterwards we lost touch.

Women look for other features in men, for atraction, then it does not really matter that much how you are downstairs, but more what you do. A well toned balanced body, good facial features, self confidence, a touch of ****iness, well dressed, status, and social skill/circle of friends. That is what makes you atractive. Least from my experience anyhow.

-Because of reputation, my girlfriends were always reluctant to sleep with me. They said it so. Like a doctor's needle, it was always the notion that it will hurt, and will be very unpleasant, I could not get past. And trust me, I tried. Because I was considered cute, one the cool boys, and went out alot, having a girlfriend was never a problem, but there was always that wall. Even in the instances I had sex, it was hardly satisfying if you can even call it that. Even with a bit of alcohol, and with lights out, it was not possible.

Last straw was my last girlfriend who said something like, since we were not that serious(no rings exchanged and all), if She had sex with me, people think She was a **** who enjoys sex, and big ones. Pretty much.


Satisfying sexual encounters came from older divorced women, and there, it was never an issue. There was barely a mention about the size at all.


College, ditto. Best time of my life.

-An average man can get all the way in with most women, I can't say the same. There's one position only I can do it with my wife, and it rocks my world, to feel it near the base of my penis. It was always a learning process to know how, how much, how fast, to do it, with all women. They vary as much, and even more as men.

-Size, shape, they really matter, but they are not what makes you a great lover. If I had to pick, I'd say empathy, patience, endurance are most important.

-You will never find a man happy or satisfied, or even secure about his own penis. You're never alone there. I have actually wished my downsized just a bit, then it would be just right.

-A large penis is as atractive as large breasts are atractive in a woman. Small is cute and lovely, medium are just perfect, large are sexy, huge are an aberration. It's more of a curiosity issue, fascination, novelty. How you perform is what counts. Trust me on this one. If by chance sex is unsatisfying it's alot more likely it's not related to size issues, or her own configuration, than with position, foreplay, disposition, atraction, and so on. We think of sex as something purely physical and forget it starts and finishes with our own imagination and underlying feelings.


Perhaps I am a bit jaded from my own past experiences, but whenever I hear a complaint about being too small, I just mentally snap "swap me and see how you like it." Being big is just good for the imaginary porn world.


Lol, guess we are never really happy with what we got.
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Will I don't care what anyone what to say, I am 6 1/2 inches length and about 3 inches thick I don't need anything more than that.

some ladies vagina is just too loose from multiple sex partners,
20 - 30 different men and no exercise to tighten the vagina
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This whole 7 and 8 inch talk has me cringing
I know! My 5ish husband already hurts me sometimes in certain positions. I know you are small too and I think that makes a difference as to how much penis we can handle. LOL!!
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size matters but not too big, average will do
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I have read about this , how a man looks soft means absolutely NOTHING. You can be a monster and shrivel up into half inch length or be a 3 incher soft and only be a 6 incher in full erection.

Here is a fasinating DVD even Netflix has to rent:

Amazon.com: Private ****s: Lexington Steele, Meema Spadola, Thom Powers: Instant Video

My husband is as Average as Average can get, it is all I know, he has always been "enough", if you don't know what you are missing, maybe it is a blessing. I orgasm near 99% of the time, so what more is there to ask for.

Of coarse I have "wondered" if bigger/longer is better, I think this is natural. A little more length would allow a few more of those crazy positions you see on the pages of a Kuma sutra book.
I guess what throws me is that I forget that a numerical average doesn't always indicate the one that is "common" or "occurs most often." For example, various sources indicate the average male's bicep is 13", chest is 40", and average height is 5'9" to 5'10". I know very few men who fit that bill.

I'm 5'9" and I can't think of any man who works in my building who is shorter than me. I believe one is the same height. The five men who work on my floor are the following heights: 6", 6'2", 6'3", 6'3", 6'4", and 6'6". You can imagine I look real average around them.

My boss is a woman, and I am a couple of inches taller than her, but the male who is next in command is 6'5". Our supervisor from the main office is 6'6".

My bicep is 15, which is two inches bigger than the average, and I don't consider myself to be a big guy.

I guess that's why i was always leery of 5 or 6 inches being the most common penis length.
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Here is THE webiste to compare what is statistically "Mr. Average" and everything outside of this :

Mr. Average - The true story about penis size, from a site that isn't trying to sell you anything.
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Ok, this is funny because my friends think i'm weird, but i actually do like the smaller to medium sized ones. One day, i asked my obgyn how long the inside of a vagina is, and when she showed me and said they're normslly only 4 inches, i understood why. i know a lot of women say the bigger the better, but for me small to medium is fine, as long as his penis isn't pencil thin, lol.
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