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Are there women who actually like men with small penises
I am on the small to average size. I have never had any compalints about my size but I have had women would have expressed in casual conversation a want for a large penis in the size department. I want to know if there are any women out there that actually want a man with no more than 6" and why.
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you are going to get what i like to call auto responses to this basically you'll get "it's not the size of your boat that matters it's the motion in the ocean the does"
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I definitely think that thickness is more important than length. I think that in some positions small could be better (like doggie style) because thats usually too deep for me and my hubs and i would say hes around 7 1/2 or so.
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I am wondering if the ladies of the forum would chime in on the order of importance:
1. Length
2. Girth
3. Hardness
If I were to venture a guess. . .I would guess 3, 2, 1 in that order, just knowing anatomy (G-spot, clitoris, stretching nerve endings). But women feel free to correct me.
I have noticed that my stb-x loved it when I was rock hard more than anything. Standing on attention. I am a tad under 6", but pretty thick (or so she told me - a little thicker than a toilet paper tube )
So, my suggestion for men is to remain vascularly healthy so blood perfuses the little guy down there and gets rock hard, more than worrying about dimensions (something you can't change).
I suppose length is the most visually appealing though.
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I couldn't care less. All I want is a partner whose main goal is to make ME happy. My H is VERY good at that, and it's not just an 'act' - he really cares. I would think that simply caring about your partner matters more than everything else combined.
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I have been with every kind & my husbands is a PERFECT fit at just 5 & 1/2 ish maybe 6 on a great day. I don't like them any bigger b/c it has caused me to get raw before & bigger guys that don't have good motion are that much more lame. My husband has the motion to go with what he has got. & on a plus he can go a little crazy too & it doesn't feel abusive lol... but really small is just fine for me.
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the average size is 5 inches to 6 inches...I really think people are just guessing the size when they say bigger then 6 inches.
Also the women's vagina molds to the males penis so it really doesn't matter.
As my wie says, mine is the perfect size, if fits her like a glove and she loves having it inside of her...I can't complain, we average 2-3 times a day when we can.
we both have high sex drives, it works well and as she said, anything larger would probably eb very uncomfortable for her as she is on the small side.
so just find a partner you work well with, that is all.
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just about six here..my wife has never complained..actually she has told me she wants it no bigger as it wouldnt be comfortable for her..plus, it may ruin any chance of us ever having anal.
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Had to use a converter.
I don't care much now, but when I was young me and the lads used to compare and measure each others so I know them by heart. Part of growing up.
It varies around 20cm or 22cm. All in my family are around same size, normal in my country would be around 16-19cm I guess.
Let me tell you having a larger one can be detrimental.
I had some very frustrating times with a girl I dated, because of size issues. We ended parting ways, regrettably as She was very sweet. Sex was too painfull for her, up to a degree I would lose my erection, and never got much farther than the very tip.
There was this other, just a passing thing, She could never orgasm, as She needed to feel the hips and balls banging against her, so She said anyway, and I couldn't do that, no matter the position, because I would hit a nerve or something like that. Wasn't satisfying either of us.
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Well it is established that DH and I used to swing. There was a couple we were friends with. He had a teeny tiny penis. And he totally rocked my world. They key is skill and enthusiasm. He was so there. For me the problem is with too big, especially since the surgery. DH is a touch too long for me. We have to be careful about position.
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Originally Posted by PepsiGirl
Size does matter, no matter what they can do with it. I however dont like them too big over 8 or too little under 6
I like about 7. 8 and up is much too big and painful. My vagina is so small that a pediatric speculum is needed for my paps.
I once dated a guy who was about 3 inches hard. It was awful! He also had no other bedroom skills; very awkward and boring in bed. Not my style; I dumped him.
If a man is less than 6, he better have other sex qualities to make up for it. I have had smaller dudes who were good at oral sex or very romantic.