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Old 08-19-2013, 09:10 AM   #16 (permalink)
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The use of leverage is temporarily suspended due to final preparation of bun in the oven. Just hoping that oven remain functional until bun is done.
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How far along are you? Wifey is loving the leverage and she's at 39 weeks. I just have to watch angles to not push on her belly.
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How far along are you? Wifey is loving the leverage and she's at 39 weeks. I just have to watch angles to not push on her belly.
31 weeks. But baby don't like pounding or cowgirl. Freaks me out and make me nauseated.

But I gain a lot of weight every where except belly! Belly is big but honestly just make me look like a fat girl instead of pregnant. And I'm at the gym no less than 3 times a week. And also drastically cut sugary stuff eat organic. Snack a lot but only healthy snacks. I change my whole way of cooking and eating since pregnant and blew up like a balloon! ..EXTREMELY frustrating.
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We have broken 2 beds .. Now we have an iron bed from Restoration Harware .. This sucker is dungeon material, love it!
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We had an iron bed specially made. I specifically requested a headboard that had plenty of places to grab on, tie up, etc. Sadly, he only wanted to sleep in the bed.
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31 weeks. But baby don't like pounding or cowgirl. Freaks me out and make me nauseated.

But I gain a lot of weight every where except belly! Belly is big but honestly just make me look like a fat girl instead of pregnant. And I'm at the gym no less than 3 times a week. And also drastically cut sugary stuff eat organic. Snack a lot but only healthy snacks. I change my whole way of cooking and eating since pregnant and blew up like a balloon! ..EXTREMELY frustrating.
I remember feeling soooo odd when Mr. Pink was inside and the baby was flipping all around like trying to meet each other...a very conflicted and uncomfortable feeling. I see it so very differently now than I did then.

You sounds like you are doing an exemplary job of keeping yourself fit. So well in fact I bet your body goes pretty much back to normal within 6-8 months after you deliver! You probably don't look nearly as fat as you think you do.

ETA, try doggy style. Give baby lots of room so you're not stuck with Braxton hicks contractions...
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ETA, try doggy style. Give baby lots of room so you're not stuck with Braxton hicks contractions...
Yep doggie is the "Old Faithful" as long as there is no excessive pounding (that calls for leverage) LOL!

In what way do you feel differently about baby kicking around during sex?
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We actually visited several furniture stores and were not happy with the beds they had. We would grab one end and shake and see how sturdy they were, and almost all failed in our eyes. I am sure the salesmen were wondering about us, lol. Needless to say, we still have not purchased a new bed, at the least our old one holds up to all we put it through. Would love to have more places to hold onto, tie up to and such. We may go end up going with a customized one to meet all our desires.
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If you live in the Midwest or Northeast see if you can locate an Amish furniture store. Their stuff is all solid wood, quite sturdy, and can be customized to, ehem, meet your requirements.
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We actually visited several furniture stores and were not happy with the beds they had. We would grab one end and shake and see how sturdy they were, and almost all failed in our eyes. I am sure the salesmen were wondering about us, lol. Needless to say, we still have not purchased a new bed, at the least our old one holds up to all we put it through. Would love to have more places to hold onto, tie up to and such. We may go end up going with a customized one to meet all our desires.
You actually shook the bed in the store??? That is too funny.
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I just reinforced the frame by adding some wood inside the existing frame. Redneck a bit I guess but you can't really see it.

I also throw a pillow between the headboard and the wall when we get going fast.
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We have broken two beds in the last 2 years.
Yeah the wife and I broke a bed once. Fun, ain't it? We broke a chair once too. The best was going at it in the car and my wife pressed her bare foot against the windshield so hard it cracked and had to be replaced.
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Yeah the wife and I broke a bed once. Fun, ain't it? We broke a chair once too. The best was going at it in the car and my wife pressed her bare foot against the windshield so hard it cracked and had to be replaced.
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Yeah, breaking a car windshield....that's hard to top!

We broke the bed, luckily no one else was home at the time because it was LOUD! I've never seen my husband more impressed with himself then that day! It was like he won a gold medal in fvcking!
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Yeah, breaking a car windshield....that's hard to top!

We broke the bed, luckily no one else was home at the time because it was LOUD! I've never seen my husband more impressed with himself then that day! It was like he won a gold medal in fvcking!
Yea I'd walk around too feeling a couple of inches taller. :-)
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