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Sex in Marriage Sexual problems are common in many relationships. This section is for discussions about sexuality. Please limit discussions to those asking for help with a problem and those offering advice. Any other threads may be deleted.

View Poll Results: Do you ladies (or your wives, guys) prefer to
Orgasm during foreplay from oral, then move on to sex 26 74.29%
Stop before climaxing from oral and move on to sex right away 9 25.71%
Voters: 35. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 04-29-2011, 07:09 AM   #16 (permalink)
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How many men and women know that only 30% of women orgasm with vaginal sex and they need clitoral stimulation to orgasm.
I'm in the 30%, I simply can't get off on oral, only about 3 times in my marraige. He enjoys going there, but it is only for forplay. Woman are all different.

Just let the passion over take you and see where it leads, no need to ask, body language is enough.
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Old 04-29-2011, 12:49 PM   #17 (permalink)
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Agreed that it is not important what the majority likes only what your partner prefers.

Keep in mind there is a physilogical reason why women like or prefer climax durring intercourse and that is that your di#$ is something for her to grip on durring climax.

I have found some women to enjoy a toy or a few fingers inside while you stimulate the clit. Keep in mind that while the top of the clitoris that is exposed is highly sensitive. much of its mass is located deep underneeth and is quite large. Try also experimenting with lubes/saliva and rubbing the whole clit agains the pelvis bone. I recently did this to my wife and she practically passed out (in a good way). It was a tip i learned online of all places. (thought i would share) You can also do this durring intercourse, cunnilingus or use your hips to create the same friction. Just try and ask "how do you like this" and change course as needed.

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Old 08-09-2012, 02:58 AM   #18 (permalink)
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My wife can O from oral and does pretty much every time. At least once. I also use my hands(fingers) in conjunction. I love to pleasure her that way. The taste,the feeling of her muscles contracting..Its my favorite thing to do for her. Only wish she'd return the favor.
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Old 08-09-2012, 03:38 AM   #19 (permalink)
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You've been going out for three weeks. It's not too soon to ask her preference. She may even realize that you're considerate and that is a great turn on.

I used to give all the time, but stbxh didn't return the favor. Personally, I'd say the O or not O during is entirely dependent upon mood.

This is really variable from person to person. She will be the best source of info for that. Be brave; ask her.
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Old 08-09-2012, 08:42 PM   #20 (permalink)
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My wife always cums from receiving oral. It's kind of like the bell going off for us to start intercourse. She gets different type of orgasms from both and one doesn't interfere with the other. I love it because she is getting (at least) two to my one.
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Old 08-10-2012, 02:23 AM   #21 (permalink)
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My wife always cums from receiving oral. It's kind of like the bell going off for us to start intercourse. She gets different type of orgasms from both and one doesn't interfere with the other. I love it because she is getting (at least) two to my one.



I agree. I want to make sure she gets off at least once or twice. Not to mention I do really enjoy pleasuring her. A lot of times she'll be giving a HJ while im down there.
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Old 08-10-2012, 06:35 PM   #22 (permalink)
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I agree. I want to make sure she gets off at least once or twice. Not to mention I do really enjoy pleasuring her. A lot of times she'll be giving a HJ while im down there.
Sounds as if we're cur from the same cloth. I love getting her off and feel as if I'm making up for the nights when she is not in the mood (unfortunately quite often!) and helps me out.

My wife knows that I have an acute foot fetish and will use one of her feet to play with my penis while I'm going down on her. It drives me insane.
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Old 08-10-2012, 06:58 PM   #23 (permalink)
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My wife has the mentality that once she has the O, then she's done. The idea of multiple Os is alien to her. So at the unique times she actually allows me to go down on her, she will even less rarely have the O. It actually happened for the first time a couple of weeks ago for the first time in years.
So no, if there's some oral going her way, its only foreplay. Not my choice, hers.
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Old 08-10-2012, 09:36 PM   #24 (permalink)
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My wife will "O" when ever she feels like its close to happening. She does not wait for anything, or "hold off". Sometimes it's oral, vaginal, with Vibrator, manual clitoral stimulation. I follow her needs.
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Old 08-13-2012, 11:22 AM   #25 (permalink)
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Give me the "O" and then another later.


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Old 08-13-2012, 11:27 AM   #26 (permalink)
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I dont know how you havent licked that already? I wouldnt be able to resist.
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I've only met one person who could make me O during oral.I got addicted to letting him get me off like that.then i'd have another during intercourse if there was enough time between the two.

Someone earlier posted something about you can eat her p**sy but you can't talk to her about what she wants...i agree.TALK to her that's the hottest part of being a new couple,all the exploratory sex talk
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Old 08-13-2012, 02:24 PM   #28 (permalink)
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I will often start giving my wife oral with the intention of just getting her started, but after I experience how she is responding to it, I finish her that way. I just can't help it!!!
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