Re: Had a dream about my wife with another man
Wife and I took an anniversary trip to a tropical location not so long ago. Lots of very attractive, scantily clad people around. We saw a young, exotic-looking guy, about 25 to 30, dark-skinned, muscular, lots of tattoos, wearing a skimpy Speedo at the beach. My wife was the first to comment on him, I told her she should go up to him and let me take a picture of the two of them so she could show her friends back home. She was going to do it, but chickened out at the last minute.
She is not one to comment on men she sees, so this was very unusual for her, she must have really been attracted to this guy.
A few weeks after getting home, she mentioned the guy at the beach again, said she should have had the picture taken. A few nights later, I had a dream about my wife and this guy getting together in the hotel. The guy said I could watch, but that he didn't want to "cross swords" with another dude. We knew from the way this guy filled out his Speedo that he was big. In the dream, she enjoyed this guy a lot, perhaps a bit too much for my liking.
Anyway, I ended up telling her about it. I think she enjoyed that I shared this with her, but she said she would never, ever consider doing something like that, which made me happy. I think a lot of this kind of stuff is fine for fantasy, but acting on it could be very risky.