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Old 02-25-2010, 03:57 PM   #1 (permalink)
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So, my wife said to me that she wants me to be rough with her during sex. Make her feel like my woman. What does she want exactly? I havent spoken to her about it yet but wanted to get thougts from everuone here.
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Old 02-25-2010, 04:40 PM   #2 (permalink)
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My wife has hinted at this before too. I think that she should be careful what she wishes for. I go about 6'3"/235 & reasonably fit....it's all fun and games 'til ya gotta explain it to the paramedics.
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Old 02-25-2010, 06:39 PM   #3 (permalink)
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What does she want exactly?
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She wants you to not ask if something you are doing is okay. She doesn't want you to be gentle. She wants to feel safe, but not babied. Talk a little dirty, grab a handful of her hair, try to break your mattress. That should get you started ...
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Old 02-25-2010, 07:29 PM   #4 (permalink)
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See the place where the babies come out. It's basically designed to take a bit of rough handling.
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about 10 years ahead of you on this - very very fun

always have a "safe" word. If she says that word - you stop right away.

step 1:
verbal control - TAKE CONTROL just by voice.

Walk in the bedroom look at her and say "strip" - don't ask - just say it "firmly".

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get physical
If she does anything other then start undressing - like if she ignores you are defies you - pin her against that wall and make her say she will do whatever you want before you will let her go.
- she almost certainly wants to be spanked - maybe wants light hair pulling

so be rough but carefully - the idea is to be dominant without actually hurting - spanking done right stings but doesn't hurt.

pin her down on the bed and have sex with her.

many women love love love this.





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So, my wife said to me that she wants me to be rough with her during sex. Make her feel like my woman. What does she want exactly? I havent spoken to her about it yet but wanted to get thougts from everuone here.
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always have a "safe" word. If she says that word - you stop right away.
My wifes safeword is "Dershowitz and Feinstein".


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spanking done right stings but doesn't hurt.
Go for the sound of the spanking rather than the pain aspect.
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Old 02-26-2010, 06:38 AM   #7 (permalink)
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I have found most (not all) women like it a little rough. Try hair pulling, light spanking, even light slapping. Many women like to be called "****" and stuff like that too. Watch how she reacts and change accordingly. Today my wife likes it very rough and I never really cared for it but have since gotten into it. Hey, it's all fun and games!
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Hahaah ummm you wouldn't need to ask me twice. Or even once hahaha

Experiment! Seems she'll tell you If you start crossing a line!

She is giving you trust! Give her back what she wants!!! To be "TAKEN" and taken hard

Have fun!!!!!!!
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Count 14 days from the first day of her menses starting. +/- 1 day is when she ovulates. This is prime time for the woman desiring the roughest sex.

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Old 03-12-2010, 12:26 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Lol, not bad advice there however there are women out there who just naturally prefer it a bit "rougher" full stop (I'm one) I just like the urgency that comes with it.
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Yah, I'm not alone!!!! good on ya!!


oh SHUT UP!!! you women!!!!
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To me, rough sex is such a turn on because my man is taking me as he should. I like to feel his control, and.... its a lot easier to climax!
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Star...I am right there with you! I can take control, and I can give mine up. Either way is equally a turn on
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Lol, If we did that you'd have nothing to moan about

or dream about.
i know... i know.... ill shut up now master
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Good boy, off you go now

BTW, that's mistress to you!!
Yes Mistress.... Yes.
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