02-28-2010, 09:59 AM
Join Date: Feb 2010
| | I need advice on this sexless relationship
I need some serious and really direct advice. I have been with a partner for 2 years and it has become pretty much sexless. The sex life has never been great but the general relationship is fine. We love each other but she says she just isn't interested in sex. Last week she said she could bring all her past partners to orgasm fast and I am challenging. I am hurt and always feel rejected. I don't feel like a girlfriend and just a roommate
. She doesn't seem concerned and says the past was just that with the others and that I shouldn't be concerned. She tries to ignore this situation and I do most of the time too but I do want affection and an emotionally connected sex life which I deem is important. I suggested therapy but she says we have other things to worry about like finances, etc. Shouldn't a good relationship involve desire and intimacy? I am now at a loss, feel rejected and insecure, am jealous of her ex's who experienced sex with her, and i am considering leaving. Please advise........i am hurting terribly.