Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Temporary Resident of Earth Lord Only Knows Where Next
Re: Bi-curious Wife
The gender of the other person is irrelevant. What your wife is doing is asking your permission to have an affair. It is likely already an EA and heading towards a PA. What makes it different from most stories here is that she appears to be out in front with it. Are you taking a risk in letting her move forward, yes. Are you taking a risk in trying to hold her back, yes. The question is not what makes her happy, the question is can you live in a "marriage" where your spouse is engaged in an affair. My wife probably felt she would be "happy" if she could have maintained her EA and still had me at home as a co-parent, partner & friend. I wouldn't live in that kind of relationship and knew with time that the other shoe would drop from the EA and told her that. The EA ended and we are still together. What can you live with???
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Last edited by Amplexor; 03-02-2010 at 09:19 AM.