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Well, it could have to do with the fact that gay men stick their penises in other guys' bums.
They also perform oral sex on one another, but I don't think many men consider receiving oral sex (from a woman) to be a homosexual act.
When my wife and I first discussed the possibility of trying anal sex, I told her that, since I'd read that a male receiving feels a heightened sensation due to the prostate being stimulated, I wouldn't ask her to receive if I wasn't willing to, as well. She was on the receiving end (no pun intended) first, and enjoyed it. A while later, we used one of her smaller vibrators on me, and I found it enjoyable, as well. While our activity along those lines is more frequently her receiving (be it me or one of her toys), I will occasionally receive, as well. In fact, once she got a new favorite vibrator, she gave me one of her old ones specifically for when I feel like having the ol' prostate stimulated, either solo or with her help. Posted via Mobile Device
They also perform oral sex on one another, but I don't think many men consider receiving oral sex (from a woman) to be a homosexual act. Posted via Mobile Device
I'm going to need to remember that one! My wife has always tried to play the gay card on me when I mention anal sex.
I had enjoyed this before I married, I asked my wife to have anal sex with me with a strap on. She said that she isn't gay would not do this. Kinda made me feel rejected since I really felt like I told her how I felt and liked and she flat out said no. I am still trying to get her to have anal sex with me. I've told her that there are as many or more nerve endings that feel good in the anal area as her clit or my glan.
I had also asked her to rim me and was refused that she is not interested and that it was disgusting. I said any area of the body that isn't clean can taste and feel disgusting, including; *****, ****s, mouths, etc. It didn't change her mind.
I had enjoyed this before I married, I asked my wife to have anal sex with me with a strap on. She said that she isn't gay would not do this. Kinda made me feel rejected since I really felt like I told her how I felt and liked and she flat out said no. I am still trying to get her to have anal sex with me. I've told her that there are as many or more nerve endings that feel good in the anal area as her clit or my glan.
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How can a man having sex with a woman be called gay?
I had enjoyed this before I married, I asked my wife to have anal sex with me with a strap on. She said that she isn't gay would not do this. Kinda made me feel rejected since I really felt like I told her how I felt and liked and she flat out said no. I am still trying to get her to have anal sex with me. I've told her that there are as many or more nerve endings that feel good in the anal area as her clit or my glan.
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You may want to put off the strap on in favor of a prostate stimulator... it's a little less "weird" I think. Baby steps LOL
I would be into anal play with the man, but the strap on might be taking it a little far. That's a bit too far out of the natural realm of the woman's job when in bed with a man LOL
This is a question aimed at the guy’s of the forum really, however ladies feel free to post you views/thoughts on this too!!
Guy’s how would you feel if your wife/girlfriend said that she would like to perform anal sex on you via the use of either a dildo or vibrator or perhaps even a strap on? Is this something that you would be open to trying with her or a total no go zone?
I've asked my wife to do this but she replied that she isn't gay and no way would she wear a dildo or use a vibrator on me. I had used a vibrator before I was married while masturbating. Personally I felt a bit of rejection after asking her and sharing such a private part of myself. Was hoping she would be more open to my needs. I also asked her to rim me and it was like I asked for the world and my cake too. She said no way she would ever do that no matter what.
Well, I can see the "no-go" on the rimming... It's one thing to use a finger (with glove?) or toy on someone, but quite another to ask them to go oral. Even though I have no problems with it myself.
It's got a base wide enough that that's not an issue. Base is sort of a "flower" design. As described by the "toy party" sales rep she bought it from, base is intended (at least when used "normally") to have the petals vibrate from the vibration of the main component and lightly stimulate the clitoris. So if it gets...um..."lost," there's some major force being applied. Posted via Mobile Device
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