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Old 03-19-2010, 10:29 AM   #1 (permalink)
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What one part of foreplay could you never give up?

Excluding intercourse, what part of the sexual experience is your favorite?
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Old 03-19-2010, 10:44 AM   #2 (permalink)
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ha.. thats dumb.. All of it... its always different. Love everything. so the part of foreplay i could not give up..is the foreplay!

sorry i know not helpful but thats my answer.
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Old 03-19-2010, 10:57 AM   #3 (permalink)
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The part I could give up is when a man goes down on me. The part I could not give up... breast fondling and kissing... equally important! I can get ready from one hot kiss... I could also get ready with breast stuff.... oh great now I have to go upstairs as thinking about this is getting me hot...
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Old 03-19-2010, 11:09 AM   #4 (permalink)
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Vino - you weenie.... That's not a decisive answer at all!!

Oh heck - I didn't even answer my own question! Mine depends, though. With my H, it would definitely be oral. With my secondary partner, kissing.

Toolate - sorry...

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Old 03-19-2010, 12:08 PM   #5 (permalink)
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The mental part. Knowing that she actually wants me is pretty much foreplay enough.
When I know that she's doing it just out of obligation (intercourse/oral/whatever) it totally ruins it for me.
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What one part of foreplay could you never give up?
Man, that's a tough one. You know, it's all part of the process. . .but I would have to say the mental part. . .whatever that stimulates your brain. . .like, "I need to XXXX and I need it now."

Now, that IS kind of a cop-out so as a secondary answer, I would say the "fondling" has to be important. . .and ladies. . .keep your nails trimmed bearing this in mind.

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WHen I think back to memorable sexual experiences, I think what I remeber the most are "moments" of my partner getting pleasure (yes, the big O or the moments leading up to it). Most of the time that was oral. . .but sometimes it may have been when she was on top.
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Old 03-19-2010, 12:51 PM   #7 (permalink)
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I agree with dryden. When the wife wants (desires) me, it make all the difference in the world. I have had sex both ways (with her desiring me/it, and with her doing it out of obligation) and I don't even like to do it if its going to be out of obligation, it really sucks. Would almost rather just take care of myself if its going to be like that.
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Old 03-19-2010, 12:59 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Vino - you weenie.... That's not a decisive answer at all!!

Oh heck - I didn't even answer my own question! Mine depends, though. With my H, it would definitely be oral. With my secondary partner, kissing.

Toolate - sorry...
if i was a weenie... id give something up!!! I just cant rule anything out.!!!

ok fine.. ill give up the stobe light and dry ice!!!
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We don't do it enough, but heavy kissing & petting - clothes still on - the kind that makes you feel like you're back in high school, in the backseat of your parent's car!

Its like once you get married you stop "making out" - intimate moments are almost always a buildup to sex - which is actually quite a shame!
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I've known it for awhile now, but I am completely blown away by the number of men who say they need a mental/emotional connection for sex... I think it's amazing, but it totally floors me!

All interesting answers so far... NG - I love yours particularly! There's something to be said for making yourself and your partner wait! The buildup of intensity, delayed gratification - nice! :-)

Vino - Strobe light and dry ice? Is this a regular part of your foreplay? Interesting... I'll be right over...
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Mind if I come with you as, this is something I gotta see!!
Please! Maybe we can sell tickets?
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Old 03-19-2010, 02:23 PM   #12 (permalink)
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Erm, count me OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Very good Vino!!
Really? I'd pay good money to SEE how dry ice and a strobe light are part of foreplay...

Wow - the visual of that is hilarious...
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Really? I'd pay good money to SEE how dry ice and a strobe light are part of foreplay...

Wow - the visual of that is hilarious...
oh ... you dont have to pay,,, Id feel cheap then...dirty.. you know..
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No, Vino just posted up a video of "how he does things" but he has removed the post and it was that, that I was grossed out by!!

Lol, I'll do the strobe and dry ice tho!!
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oh ... you dont have to pay,,, Id feel cheap then...dirty.. you know..
I missed that one, darn it!

We certainly wouldn't want you to feel cheap... Or dirty - unless you're into that sort of thing...
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I'd have to say the part of foreplay I could NEVER give up..... that's hard (no pun intended) one since one can classify oral sex as indeed intercourse but then you're getting into semantics. So, bj's aside and being a breast guy it would have to be fondling/touching/caressing/sucking/etc my wife's wonderful breasts!! Without hesitation!
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