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The part I could give up is when a man goes down on me. The part I could not give up... breast fondling and kissing... equally important! I can get ready from one hot kiss... I could also get ready with breast stuff.... oh great now I have to go upstairs as thinking about this is getting me hot...
What one part of foreplay could you never give up?
Man, that's a tough one. You know, it's all part of the process. . .but I would have to say the mental part. . .whatever that stimulates your brain. . .like, "I need to XXXX and I need it now."
Now, that IS kind of a cop-out so as a secondary answer, I would say the "fondling" has to be important. . .and ladies. . .keep your nails trimmed bearing this in mind.
Excluding intercourse, what part of the sexual experience is your favorite?
WHen I think back to memorable sexual experiences, I think what I remeber the most are "moments" of my partner getting pleasure (yes, the big O or the moments leading up to it). Most of the time that was oral. . .but sometimes it may have been when she was on top.
I agree with dryden. When the wife wants (desires) me, it make all the difference in the world. I have had sex both ways (with her desiring me/it, and with her doing it out of obligation) and I don't even like to do it if its going to be out of obligation, it really sucks. Would almost rather just take care of myself if its going to be like that.
I'd have to say the part of foreplay I could NEVER give up..... that's hard (no pun intended) one since one can classify oral sex as indeed intercourse but then you're getting into semantics. So, bj's aside and being a breast guy it would have to be fondling/touching/caressing/sucking/etc my wife's wonderful breasts!! Without hesitation!