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it not like real "work", like working in a factory....but, its still work. think about when you have sex, thats work..well its the same thing.
the blood is pumping, the heart is racing, your out of breath. it does fell like a mini marathon. you're tired, thirsty, hungry, sweating...and usually naked by the end.
However, when it's taking 30 minutes to finish, my jaw is DONE. Sorry, my TMJ just can't handle it.
Hubs is usually has good timing
But if you wonder why it's so much work, try it for 20 minutes Seriously.
Hmmm...is it just me or does 20 minutes still sound like a long time to be giving oral sex?
I think I would start to feel bad for her after 15 minutes.
If it is one of those "I'm gonna make you c_m" kind of BJs and it is not about teasing or foreplay, then I'm not sure we have had one last longer than 10 minutes and often much less.
I am so tired of reading about how all women must really hate BJs and it's such a chore. Not every woman thinks that way. Some of us actually enjoy it. Posted via Mobile Device
if it is a good bj, it should not take anywhere near 20 minutes...
That's not true. Sometimes hubs has problems cumming from a BJ.
I give good ones, and frequently.
He has no complaints. But my jaw does.
I just asked him. He said, "That guy's just jealous."
I LOVE doing it It's sometimes our "sex" as I orgasm from giving him a BJ. I don't just bob up and down LOL No. I got moves And it's our love making. ESPECIALLY right now as I can't have sex (doc orders) for another 2 weeks
I am so tired of reading about how all women must really hate BJs and it's such a chore. Not every womman think that way. Some of us actually enjoy it. Posted via Mobile Device
I am so tired of reading about how all women must really hate BJs and it's such a chore. Not every womman think that way. Some of us actually enjoy it. Posted via Mobile Device
The only thing that sucks is women like you are apparently very few and far between.
Just gotta take breaks when the jaw hurts and do other things to the member
We are both not into "foreplay". We just do it....kinda all tangled up within each other. It's not like, Ok, I sucked you and you licked me (eh, i dont' care for that though) and now you're pinching my nipples and I'm rubbing you....
No.
We're like greedy kids in a candy store. Grabbing, screwing, licking, sucking Good stuff.
So I guess that's why a 20 minute blow job isn't a big deal to me because I'm doing other things and he's doing things to me. I'm not just bobbin up and down on his knob. It's the whole experience.
That's not true. Sometimes hubs has problems cumming from a BJ.
I give good ones, and frequently.
He has no complaints. But my jaw does.
I just asked him. He said, "That guy's just jealous."
I LOVE doing it It's sometimes our "sex" as I orgasm from giving him a BJ. I don't just bob up and down LOL No. I got moves And it's our love making. ESPECIALLY right now as I can't have sex (doc orders) for another 2 weeks
jealous? as if.....I just know it has never taken me 20 min to cum with a bj.....
Just gotta take breaks when the jaw hurts and do other things to the member
We are both not into "foreplay". We just do it....kinda all tangled up within each other. It's not like, Ok, I sucked you and you licked me (eh, i dont' care for that though) and now you're pinching my nipples and I'm rubbing you....
No.
We're like greedy kids in a candy store. Grabbing, screwing, licking, sucking Good stuff.
So I guess that's why a 20 minute blow job isn't a big deal to me because I'm doing other things and he's doing things to me. I'm not just bobbin up and down on his knob. It's the whole experience.
Giving a blow job leads to jaw and neck pain. It is not easy.
That said, if I can enjoy giving oral after being sexually abused as a child in that manner, any woman can.
I had an ex who used to manipulate me into having sex all the time. I never found him attractive and he was too controlling, so I did not like having sex with him. He would whine, beg and guilt me into it. I have recently told him that only a sick man can enjoy sex with a woman who does not want it. I hated semen way back then and I refused to let him come in my mouth.
Since I am comfortable with my husband, I don't mind blowing him all the time or allowing my hubby to come in my mouth. Of course, I always found him very sexy and he NEVER pressures me into anything sexual.
Anyone who only does a blow job for five minutes isn't doing it right. It is supposed to be a sensuous, drawn out experience. Don't hate on those of us that have good sex lives, just because you may not. My husband's blowjobs are never less than fifteen mintues. TG and I are righteous tarts.
jealous? as if.....I just know it has never taken me 20 min to cum with a bj.....
Well, then I'm glad you enjoy your quickies.
What do you care about how long our bjs last? LOL!! Good for you! You come quickly. Awesome.
And no, (to the other person) I don't like to be licked. What problem is that for you? my husband doesn't care...I like TONS of other things. He knows my reasons...so why do you care?
Godam. LOL I have a great sex life with a husband who doesnt come in 2 minutes. it's more than I ever wanted If I'm happy, what do other people care?
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Re: Ladies, Why Are Blowjobs so much work? 
Seriously.
