Sex in MarriageSexual problems are common in many relationships. This section is for discussions about sexuality. Please limit discussions to those asking for help with a problem and those offering advice. Any other threads may be deleted.
Just curious. Has anyone gotten their sex relationships on track/ back on track with the help of this forum? Or is it just a sounding board? I've noticed some unmistakable frauds here. Guys writing as women to practice their titilating talents I suppose but are most of these folks real people with real situations?
I just touched myself...i'm real and yea.. its just a sounding board. You need to decide for yourself, your direction.
You can of course decide to seek professional help for whatever "situation" you find unpleasant.... which is recomemnded.
I've noticed some unmistakable frauds here. Guys writing as women to practice their titilating talents I suppose but are most of these folks real people with real situations?
You are more inquisitive than me then, I try to read very closely, I can not at all tell who is being a "fraud".
I think many times it helps people to write out their problems (for some that might be all they need) and receive feedback, even if from strangers online. Get others ideas on what worked for them. Just feeling like someone understands, you are not completely alone in the world. A shared experience , for some, makes it bearable.
I think it has been helpful, insightful, plus some of us just enjoy giving our opionions, and experiences, for whatever that is worth.
Thank you for your varied opinions. Each are, in their own way, valid enough to see a level of honesty that is encouraging for me to continue here. And no, my situation is no better nor do I see hope for change for it.
Opinios of others have given me insight to some issues. Some people's advice/imput is not helpful other's is. Naturally, many of these topics i would not ask my sister, mom or even friend. Anoniimity is the critical thing here.
Most importantly there were angles/issues related to my situation that i may not have helped.
Nope...definitely real. It is what is great about having a forum...I can be completely honest about my issues and those in my relationship. So far...we are still working towards a positive result...but we are on the road towards success, and that is what matters.
I am but wood yet have great hopes of one day becoming a REAL boy.
I know what you are saying. I would like to think people are getting some help here as I do see quite a bit of good advice. Trick is as peoples "disasters" end, in one way or the other, most are likely not to return as they go back to everyday life. So unless you go through the archives you will probably not see how many really get or accept help. Gotta figure there is going to be a big separation between being given help and actually receiving it as well.
Yes, I have received help here. I have tried many suggestions without getting on track, but it has since opened up a courage to keep trying. Although the "keep trying" has landed husband and I in some loud and negative discussions, with each of those has come a little breakthrough. We are currently on a track that he says is going to work to improve HIS frequency (apparently he had a drive but hidden resentments).
What I am trying to say is that the results vary and the help may not be immediate... and it comes down to how you present your situation from both sides as much as possible... which requires each poster to really look at their own situations from their spouses side.
I do not know what the actual "success rate" is.
I love the sarcasm that can come out between veteran posters... maybe you are picking up on that as "faud like?" Its really just venting and making light of our plights, I have seen very few if any frauds on here.
but yes i agree that it is hard to talk about sex issues with family and friends at times so this is a good place to vent and i reply to post that i feel i either relate to or could in put help.
as with anything you take it all in and use what you can and dump the rest.
It has been a great forum to not only vent your problems and looking for advice, but to also give advice when you see others in a place you have been. Its also great because you can look on here and chances are that you are not alone in your feelings/situations. While some people look to be rude/fake/whatever, theres alot of people here looking for help and giving help
Ive already noticed a positive change in my relationship- and realized the things that i could do myself instead of always shift the blame to my hubs- taht alone has made a huge difference
Has anyone found help here? 
