MardiGrasMambo

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chillymorn

Its all about attitude! if you have a great excited attitude and actually pay attention to his body language and even ask him playfully if this or that feels good then a hand job can be better than a blow job.

contriary to popular belief a bad blow job is just not worth it all that comes throught is that you really would not want to be doing it in the first place.


I vote for a loving playfull hand job over a bad blow job anyday of the week.

try ..... handjobadvice .com

there a girl showing how to do some awsomes moves and she is doing it to a sex toy so its not really porn.

Runs like Dog

Mardi Gras masks and opera gloves are nice too. Just sayin....

chillymorn

mask maybe but gloves would be like a condom.I want skin on skin

anon_4_now

1. USE LOTS OF LUBE!!! Think of him putting dry fingers inside of a dry you... We have the same nerve endings that would much feel moisture than dryness.
2. Lots of eye contact and excitement. Even if you don't get turned on by the act, give us visual clues that you might be.
3. Play with yourself at the same time. We are visual.

Dr. Rockstar

I'm going to echo a number of things other people have said so far:

1) Lube up well.
2) Use both hands.
3) Use your breasts in addition to your hands

You said you weren't "comfortable" with it? Does that mean you just don't enjoy it or that it physically hurts you in some way? Either way, can you do other things with you mouth on his penis, like licking the shaft, or licking or kissing the head? The head is much more sensitive than the shaft, so if you flick your tongue underneath the head, he will probably enjoy that a lot.

If you're not planning on using your mouth at all, then use both hands. You can stack them on top of each other, like you're holding a bat, or interlacing the fingers like you're praying (what a weird image that is for this forum). If they're on top of each other, make sure they're always in contact with both the other hand and your man's penis. Never lose contact with the penis, but when bringing your hands up, make sure the bottom of your hand never goes higher than the rim of his head before pump back down.

And vary your rotation. You don't have to just go straight up and down. Rotate your hands left and right. If they're not intertwined, move them in opposite directions. Imagine that you're molding wet clay on a potter's wheel.

But, if you're just uncomfortable with the idea of having his penis all or part way in your mouth, you can form a seal around the lips of your mouth with your hand so that it forms a tube. If your hand is well lubed and you flick the tip of head occasionally with your tongue, you can "go down" on him without actually taking him into your mouth, and he may not notice. And if he does, he may not mind.

And get creative! Use your breasts. I imagine for most men the blow/hand job is just as much about empowerment as it is about the pleasure. If you squeeze your breasts over his penis or let him straddle you and "t*ttie f*ck" you, it may accomplish the same feeling for him. Or if you engage him by straddling his face so you can work him while he licks you, neither of you may care.

And, yes, I have spent WAY too much time researching this particular activity.

Hope this helps!

Stayingunknown

I love hand jobs. I enjoy them over blow jobs. It is always great.