04-26-2010, 01:27 PM
Join Date: Nov 2009
| | Re: Women: Liked being thanked for sex?
Originally Posted by Scannerguard
What do you think when your man thanks you for sex either right after or the next day?
Seem inappropriate, like it's supposed to be a mutual exchange of pleasure, or does it make you feel good and special?
Originally Posted by toolate
Ok, to give you a straight answer on this, and you know alot of my story from my posts etc... my husband said thank you after I gave him a BJ a few weeks ago...
All I have to say is sex is not a gift, its an act... dont thank... but praise...
I think it depends... Sometimes I want it all to be about my partner. I want to focus on him, pay attention to every last part of him, make him relaxed, make him feel phenomenal, etc. In that instance - it is a gift. It's a gift of my time and of myself. When it's that kind of sex, I certainly don't mind hearing, "Wow, babe. Thanks! That was incredible!" It reaffirms that he understood what I was doing and that he appreciated that gift.
When my partner does the same for me - I sure as heck will thank him repeatedly...