Re: Oral, how important is it?
It wasn't really "important" in my marriage. I'm probably the only guy in the world who didn't crave bjs, and my wife enjoyed receiving, but it wasn't her main thing. However, I think people should be open to each other's needs and be willing to talk and work things out.
If it is important to one, it should be important to the other to the point it should be addressed in conversation. I don't know your particular issues or his. My wife had a body chemistry that didn't produce a bad odor. Of course, she bathed daily, and with that, she had no odor there, no foot odor, etc., so that made it easy for me.