Females: What is too kinky?

Millania007 · 05-19-2010, 09:45 AM

too kinky?
giving it to him with a strap on in his back door-no thanks-thankfully he is not into this..

Happyquest · 05-24-2010, 02:18 PM

Too kinky for me would be anything that both didnt agree was pleasurable. If both agree its enjoyable then I think it can be safely explored.

For the Mrs. Too kinky is anything that involves others she is only into one on one. I would love to explore a 3some but because that is beyond her limits I am ok not going there.

I am happy she loves to be tied up and turned into a sex slave. We have our safe words such as yellow meaning your nearing an edge or I am a bit uncomfortable and Red means stop.

Anal has been off limits for her because of medical issues left since kids. I am ok with that too.

Too kinky for me? It would take alot for me to use the word Red

sntdwn2ufrmhvn · 05-26-2010, 04:04 PM

there is not much that is "too kinky" for me..lol. me and my last b/f even tried anal play w/ him..it was his idea tho. not into actual violence tho like choking, or anything too violent. but all the choices you gave are not that kinky IMO.

unloved · 05-26-2010, 04:18 PM

Oh, I thought this was a checklist.

SweetiepieMI · 05-27-2010, 06:28 AM

hahahaha thats pretty damn funny

Equity · 05-31-2010, 09:32 PM

Do you have a "none of the above" comment. Been there, done that, might do it tonight.

youngb · 06-01-2010, 02:50 PM

I would definitely say nothing mentioned was "too kinky" pretty mainstream stuff you spoke of...

MarriedWifeInLove · 06-01-2010, 04:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cherrypie18

too kinky for me would be um...using a strap on on my husband lol

none of that is too kinky

Using a strap on on my husband too kinky, no way - my favorite activity!

BlazinD · 10-15-2010, 05:27 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Millania007

too kinky?
giving it to him with a strap on in his back door-no thanks-thankfully he is not into this..

WTF is the big deal about men who like their buttholes licked, fingered, prodded, poked, or pounded? The argument I tend to hear is: "Well he is probably gay or bi-curious if he likes THAT sort of thing"...with a snicker. I like all of the above and I am not gay in any way, shape, or form. Gay men are attracted to MEN...I am attracted to women AND love my butthole being serviced. Imagine that. Just because the strap-on is in the shape of a penis doesn't make the man gay...it's the only shape that will fit...a square won't a rectangle won't a star won't etc.

It's 2010 people...where married folks don't sleep in separate beds anymore and men can have their buttholes serviced without being gay

greeneyeddolphin · 10-15-2010, 05:53 AM

Gee, I thought I was sheltered, but I guess not.

None of those seem too kinky to me. Although years ago, they would have.

What a particular woman thinks is kinky is a very individual thing. If you think she might think something is too kinky, you really need to talk to her. She's the only one that can tellyou what she thinks.

malmale · 10-15-2010, 06:09 AM

i have always viewed being kinky is like adding cream to the cake

MsLonely · 10-18-2010, 05:24 AM

Sex toy can be kinky depends on who and how you're gonna play with it.
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Idontknownow · 10-18-2010, 08:04 AM

None of that seems to kinky to me. Only thing I haven't done on the list is anal and tying up...but the anal parts on me(work in progress) and he has shown no interest in tying up.

bumpgrind1 · 10-19-2010, 05:07 PM

Nothing on that white bread list is to kinky. But I think my first wife is doing pony shows in Tijuana nowadays.

geekchick · 10-23-2010, 08:58 PM

Nothing on that list I would even consider kinky. You'll have to sit down with her and ask because sometimes asking during sex could kill the mood if she's not into it.Know each others limits and use safety words. for toys or kinky beginner kits try websites like adam and eve or like this one

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