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View Poll Results: What is considered "a little too kinky"?
Sex toys 1 3.85%
Tying up the other 6 23.08%
Anal Sex 17 65.38%
69ing with lights on 4 15.38%
Watching porn movies while having sex 5 19.23%
Multiple Choice Poll. Voters: 26. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 05-11-2010, 02:16 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Default Females: What is too kinky?

My girlfriend refers to me being "too kinky" but in the beginning of our relationship, she was fine with being naughty every now and then. Is being creative in the bedroom different from being kinky? What is considered by most women to be "too kinky"? Females, please take the poll, in so that some of us "kinky" men know when we take it too far.
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LOL wheres the none of the above answer??
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Default Re: Females: What is too kinky?

So your vote is that none of the mentioned are "too kinky"?
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Old 05-11-2010, 03:19 PM   #4 (permalink)
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So your vote is that none of the mentioned are "too kinky"?
Mine too. One, some or all may not be to some people's tastes and as with everything nothing should be undertaken without both being prepared/happy to do so..... but as described no, not one of them is 'too kinky'. By a long chalk.
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Default Re: Females: What is too kinky?

I agree (not a female though). My wife and I have done all of those things plus items not even anywhere near that list...

Frankly for my wife and myself nothing much is really considered off-limits. We both have been willing to try most anything once. The only thing we both agree on is we want it only to be us, no one else. That's just our choice, nothing saying wanting an extra is bad/wrong if you do choose to go that route. We just don't want to go there.
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I'm with everyone else... None of those are even remotely kinky in my book!
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Old 05-11-2010, 04:51 PM   #7 (permalink)
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You forgot to add where she pretends to be the wealthy, sexually frustrated heiress and she sits in the backseat of the car while you drive and wear a chaffeur hat and listen to her problems.
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None of the above...
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too kinky for me would be um...using a strap on on my husband lol

none of that is too kinky
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LOL wheres the none of the above answer??


None of it's too kinky. Sit down and ask her what she finds to be too kinky. You're not gonna get the right answer from any of us seeing as we haven't witnessed or took part in your bedroom life. So just be honest and talk to her about it.
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wow, none of that is allowed in my house
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Those are all pretty calm LOL but we have done some pretty wild things too
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None of the above....
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69ing BUT with lights on?
Such a fine distinction!
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none of that is too kinky. My H and I get WAY wilder than that...he loves my sexual confidence and that i'm not shy about the things we try. He says that itself is sexy.
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