05-21-2010, 03:35 PM
Join Date: May 2010
| | Re: Masterbation in marriage
When you 2 first started having sex, was it pull of clothes, get it on, get done and out?
If that's been the norm and now you want a little more romance it's gonna take some work for a man to change their habits. We're like dogs in a way, we get it one way and that's what we're used to.
**Analogy inserted here**
If we're used to you just throwing us the bone to get our treat then that's how we want it. If suddenly you want us to go and grab your slippers and the newspaper before getting the bone then that's gonna screw us up. The man will be like, what just happened, I didn't get my damn bone......Walks away hurt and doesn't know what he did wrong.
Just telling a man you need more romance will not work, we might think, "OK more romance, throw on a slow love song, my little friend is up, let's go I'm ready."
Sometimes, for a man, you gotta sit them down, grab a piece of paper and draw a diagram for us (some pun intended) but it's the truth. Men cannot decipher this woman code OK, ladies remember that and engrave somewhere, anywhere, WE DO NOT KNOW WOMAN TALK. Get in my face and just blurt it out, we might get hurt at 1st but then the light bulb just might light up if you tell us straight up. Enough of these I'll give him hints to let him know what I want. Just tell me.
Almost all man, married/single masturbate. I think that most of us are going for a world record at times. If you're not getting any sex and he's not masturbating then you might have a huge problem at that point.