06-14-2010, 01:15 PM
Join Date: Aug 2008
Location: Yorkshire, UK
| | Re: No sex is killing my marriage.
Originally Posted by so sad
Something happened though and we have never recovered and we can't seem to fix it. One night after she rolled off me and over to her side of the bed and was angry. Shocked the hell out of me so I ask her what was wrong. She said that if that was all it was gonna be then she didn't want me to touch her. She said that all I wanted her to do was to climb on top of me and screw for 2 minutes then fall to sleep. Since then we have not been able to have good sex. All we do is fight when we come to bed and it has really screwed me up. I have issues now with errections. I have gone to Drs. and Therapist. The Drs. give me meds for ED that don't work and the
She has deliberately attempted to make you impotent. She is doing it quite methodically, and is doing quite a good job.
I can only think it's one of these reasons:
- She hates you
- She hates men
- She has taken a lover
I would not normally say this to a married man, but for your own sanity you need to leave her and double quick.
Either way, you do not have the right kind of personality to cope with her. You are far too pandering to her. For instance, you let her throw out your meds. I actually agree with her on that, but it still make you look weak. I'm afraid she is toxic for you. You will never fix her, and she will carry on until she has totally broken you.